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I'm a 22 y/o virgin who wants to lose it badly...
So I've been thinking a lot lately about losing my virginity, I'm 22 and I really want to do it. But the problem is that I don't have anyone do it with, I don't want to lose it with someone I know because that would mean telling them that I'm a virgin and I don't want any weird look or whatever, and waiting for a serious relationship is hard! I've never had a boyfriend or anything like that and I'm afraid that I'll never find someone. Soooo should I do it with a stranger or what do you guys think?
Stranger = danger
Get yourself some toys, being a virgin isn't a bad thing anyways. Just wait for the right person. Please for the love of gawd if you hook up with a stranger don't shop for them on craigslist. 4 reply
Hi there,
Well, I can understand your problem at some extent but I don't think it's a good idea to give it away like that with a stranger. It's better to do it with someone special, someone you have a connection with.
I myself am a 25 year old virgin and I'm not stressed out to doing it and time soon. Life is keeping me busy and that's why i never...... 2 reply
Ask yourself. Why is it important for you to lose virginity? is it because of in media (tv-series and everything) is portrayed in a positive light and being a virgin as an ultimate loser? What does sex means to you? If it's meaningless, why bother and start the path of being sexually active with strangers? You might get emotionally scarred. Are you...... 1 reply
I agree with what's said here about gaining and not losing.
If it helps anyone, I can only tell my story (of a straight female) :
I decided to put an end to this eternal question when I was 19. I had had some crushes before, but it never was a full grown relationship based on enough mutual trust and respect, that I'd be sure he wouldn't tell it ar...... reply
24 virgin who is really stressed and almost burnt out med student. Sometimes, I feel like, 'I should just get laid' and then I think I waited this long might as well do it with someone I love or at least like. Guess I will be waiting for some more time. reply
If you're a male, there's a fleshlight (sex toy). You could go out and get laid, just make sure you got a condom. And stay safe about it.
If you're a female. It's a little bit different from a male because of the whole hymen/blood situation of vaginal sex. I don't mind if you lose it to a friend/stranger. But the hard part is making sure the partn...... 2 reply
You should just do it however and with whomever you feel comfortable with. Make sure it is safe and consensual for both parties and forget about the rest. Virginity is just a made up thing so why should you be embarrassed by it? If you are still freaking then just think everyone is a virgin at some point.
On a side note there are plenty of people...... reply
You could make sure your hymen was broken using a toy (Mine was already broken the first time I officially had sex, from a guy with looong fingers), and not tell the person you know it's your first time, unless you feel like it. reply
