shipping/pressuring real-life people into relationships is intrusive. I'm a fujoshi, and I understand how important it is to differentiate between how we treat fictional characters and actual real-life people. In particular real people who we interact with (aka, non-celebrities, actual friends/acquaintances). It's one thing to ship fictional charac...... 2 reply
That is messed up and abusive. You need to get out of that situation. Do you have any friends or other family who can help you? Do you have anyone you can stay with? Can you go to the police? I don't know if that's legal in your country, but you need to get out of there. reply
I didn't have sex with other people until my 20s, mostly because I was super awkward and really inhibited. I did masturbate (can we say that on mangago?) and have toys, so when I finally did have penetrative sex it wasn't painful or overwhelmingly new. I regret a little not doing it sooner, but it doesn't particularly bother me.
I think I learned ...... 1 reply
pansexual here, very strong feelings about increasing lgbtqa+ visibility and civil rights. I also tend to get more nervous around women I'm attracted to! I get crushes on women more easily than on men, which is part of it. I think it's also because I have more in common with women and value their approval, and of course I've learned to be less trus...... 1 reply
want to do i cant study for fuck's sake
