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Am I Bi
I met a girl on internet and we started talking on WhatsApp. She was younger than me. I was talking with her bc we shared the same hobbies. We talked for 1 year almost everyday. I liked teasing her and all. But then i became busy and stopped talking with her. And yesterday i met a girl who looks so much like her and when i talk to her my heart is beating bc she reminds me of her.And i find myself thinking about her sometimes.Does that mean I liked her but I didnt realize it? Does that make me bi? Im a girl btw
Sexual identity can be really confusing but you don't have to feel restrained by labeling yourself. I have struggled a lot with what to identify myself as and it comes down to what you're comfortable with. Personally I'm most comfortable identifying as a lesbian but I've only dated guys in the past and can still be turned on by some guys. There is ...... reply
it's fine to date whoever you want to. as almost everyone has said, you don't need to label yourself unless you feel comfortable. you could discover more things about yourself in the future, but it's ok if you just like guys, but also like one specific girl, or if you like both guys and girls, or if you're ok with dating genderfluid people as well....... reply
We don't have a similar story, but maybe, I wish, my story will help you.
I dated girls so many times when I was teen. And I thought that I'm totally lesbian. But, in my early 20s, I have dated a mature man (he was in late 20s at the time) for 2 years. And then, when I was in my middle 20s, I met an older woman (about 5 years older than me) and we'...... reply
I just wanna say, don't put yourself in a label right away. If you really like this girl, go for her, but do NOT label yourself "bi" unless you feel very comfortable doing so. Heck, if you want to call yourself straight and yet still date a girl, go for it. Labels are not important so do not feel confined to calling yourself bi... 1 reply
No, it does not make you bi, this forced label ideas are so pushed on to society, it just confuses ppl. Liking someone for whom they are is fine and doesn't make you anything pass human. Someone else reminding you of her, yes you might like her, you might just miss her that much at the same time too, if u spent almost a year talking, you might be m...... reply
Similar experience, I called myself demisexual for a long time, but then meeting more people got me thinking that I was bisexual. Do you like guys/ other girls?
Btw it's fine to be confused, please don't feel pressured to identify yourself as a certain sexuality. 1 reply
