I've been thinking about this for a while and I've decided I need to confess (again). I confessed when i first had a crush on him, before we became friends and it was a more nonchalant thing. He said he didn't want to date someone he was friends first.
Over the last 2 years, we've become friends (mostly through mutuals and group stuff). I realized recently that I have feelings again, which are definitely more serious. I was told by a mutual that after we hung out for the first time alone last week (farmers market trip), he asked his friend if they thought I still like him. The friend said it was possible, but could go either way and asked what he thought. He said he "had never thought about it before" and that he likes spending time with me. Knowing him, he probably didn't give it any more thought past that .
Even though I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way, I need to get it off my chest before he graduates next month and leaves for his job. Any advice on what to say? And how I might be able to get him alone without setting off the alarms in his head?
Over the last 2 years, we've become friends (mostly through mutuals and group stuff). I realized recently that I have feelings again, which are definitely more serious. I was told by a mutual that after we hung out for the first time alone last week (farmers market trip), he asked his friend if they thought I still like him. The friend said it was possible, but could go either way and asked what he thought. He said he "had never thought about it before" and that he likes spending time with me. Knowing him, he probably didn't give it any more thought past that .
Even though I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way, I need to get it off my chest before he graduates next month and leaves for his job. Any advice on what to say? And how I might be able to get him alone without setting off the alarms in his head?
I had my bestie bake this niche pie that my crush and i talked about liking several months ago just so i would have an excuse to ask him to come over and have some. For context, i asked him out 2 years ago and he turned me down since we weren't really friends yet. We're now kinda friends (have a lot of mutuals and are in band together). I know he's a chronic overthinker, but he's also incredibly dense lol and didn't even question the pie. While we were talking, i mentioned how his friend asked my bestie to eat dinner he cooked, just the two of them, and that i thought it was strange but she wasn't phased. We agreed his friend probably likes her. I then realized I literally just asked HIM to come over and it was just the two of us...i also waited 3 days and then asked him to hang out JUST THE TWO OF US. He once again didn't even question it and said yes and now I'm wondering if he's even catching my hints or what i should even do when we hang out... thoughts? pls help guys im crashing out I've been calling it an "ambiguously friendly hangout" but idk what he thinks this is
I was asked this question by one of my friends. As put off as I was, I was also left thinking: why exactly? Obviously, if two biologically related people decide to reproduce, chances are that their children will have some kind of physical deformity or mental disability. However, why is the case of adopted siblings, or two sisters? why are our brains wired to be repulsed at the mere thought of a relationship between siblings? And I would like to state that I 1000% disagree with incest in any, any, context.
Not that anyone is following lol. I posted a little while back about my experience confessing to my crush 2-3 years ago, getting rejected, becoming friends, and then realizing things were still kinda weird between us. We've only hung out in group settings before, as I'm closer to his roommates than to him. Since my last post, things have been mostly back to normal (as normal as it gets for us), except that we're more comfortable addressing each other and asking each other questions (still in group settings). I thought that since he's graduating in a few months, I might as well bite the bullet and ask him to hang out just the two of us. He said yes! He seemed pretty excited (as much as one can over text), despite being busy and having exams. My question is how can I vibe check how he feels about me or hint about my own feelings? Should I even bring it up? I thought this could be a good time because we're about to go on spring break and I could have *recovery time* lol. Also ideas of what I could do for this ambiguously friendly hangout haha...
A couple of years ago started liking this guy at uni and i confessed to him, but he rejected me because we weren't really friends, just had some mutuals. He said he would only date someone he's friends with.
Over the last two years, we've kinda become friends (I hangout with his roommates a lot so we end up in the same spaces), but it's always a little awkward. I know he still thinks about when i asked him out, because he's mentioned it to his friends recently. I also know that last year he liked one of his close friends (she doesn't like him), but idk if he's still into her.
I've always tried to be respectful and stay out of his space, and he's always kept his distance physically, but last week we were doing a puzzle with our friends at his apartment and he sat next to me, close enough so i could feel him breathing. He'd accidentally touch my hand and immediately apologize, which happened at least 5 times (once it was my knee, which I'm still trying to figure out how he got there). Even after i stopped acknowledging it, he would still apologize, which kinda just drew more attention. He would give me pieces that he thought i was working on and sometimes would take a piece, lean in and softly ask where i thought it goes. When I tried to leave to eat (i had been there for several hours), he said that they had food there, and when i said i specifically wanted chips, he said that they had those. When someone asked if he actually was serious, he hesitated and said he didn't actually know, which made me feel like he was just saying whatever so i'd stay (which he's never cared about before). We'd joke a bit here and there, and i admit i may have been flirting unconsciously by teasing him about his vocal stim habit of singing. My memory, of course, is unreliable. I should add that his previous(?) crush was also there, so idk if that influenced him.
My friends think he's into me, at least a little, but I'm not sure. He's also graduating this year, so i won't be seeing him after that. Is it worth saying something? Besties i need help
Over the last two years, we've kinda become friends (I hangout with his roommates a lot so we end up in the same spaces), but it's always a little awkward. I know he still thinks about when i asked him out, because he's mentioned it to his friends recently. I also know that last year he liked one of his close friends (she doesn't like him), but idk if he's still into her.
I've always tried to be respectful and stay out of his space, and he's always kept his distance physically, but last week we were doing a puzzle with our friends at his apartment and he sat next to me, close enough so i could feel him breathing. He'd accidentally touch my hand and immediately apologize, which happened at least 5 times (once it was my knee, which I'm still trying to figure out how he got there). Even after i stopped acknowledging it, he would still apologize, which kinda just drew more attention. He would give me pieces that he thought i was working on and sometimes would take a piece, lean in and softly ask where i thought it goes. When I tried to leave to eat (i had been there for several hours), he said that they had food there, and when i said i specifically wanted chips, he said that they had those. When someone asked if he actually was serious, he hesitated and said he didn't actually know, which made me feel like he was just saying whatever so i'd stay (which he's never cared about before). We'd joke a bit here and there, and i admit i may have been flirting unconsciously by teasing him about his vocal stim habit of singing. My memory, of course, is unreliable. I should add that his previous(?) crush was also there, so idk if that influenced him.
My friends think he's into me, at least a little, but I'm not sure. He's also graduating this year, so i won't be seeing him after that. Is it worth saying something? Besties i need help
Its a 3 year friendship we're on a 4 man group both him and I click - so aften its just us 2- we have same idealogy but not same lifestyle, we often date in what he calls "friendly dates". He's physically clingy but to secretive about his thoughts and i dont like the look his other "group of friendz" are giving when we're together.
It bothers me that i minimize our interactions and just talk thru chats. So should I take the chance? （/TДT)/
It bothers me that i minimize our interactions and just talk thru chats. So should I take the chance? （/TДT)/
One of my homies slipped and drunkenly confessed his feelings for me yesterday at midnight. We aren't as close compared to our other homies in the same grp but he's the nicest guy i know, he became my baggage carrier when i was cosplaying two times and he's already been helping me with school related stuff way before that, so now im conflicted asf. I really want to ask when, how and why he likes me, but i dont think bro wanted me to know in the first place cause he aint bringing shit up this whole time. I dont wanna second guess his true intentions into becoming homies with me but i dont want to be the one to bring shit up as well. I dont even know what i should feel
Someone said i look like adam sandler.
Gay guy here. I'm just curious about one thing. Most gay guys around me are verse, like 80%. Guys who are in a relationships, most of time, both of them are verses also.
So reading mangas where the couples are exclusively bottom/top I just feel like they're missing out because both experiences are good and hard to pass. It's not my business for sure, but I'm a nosy person. (▰˘◡˘▰) Thoughts?
So reading mangas where the couples are exclusively bottom/top I just feel like they're missing out because both experiences are good and hard to pass. It's not my business for sure, but I'm a nosy person. (▰˘◡˘▰) Thoughts?
It might just be just me but like.... I hate stories where the protag CLEARLY has a set goal in life and doesn't want the change (especially after like experiencing problems like being banished or heartache or something) And they are well on their way to being in the state they want to be in.... Till some other character just comes in and messes it up!?(even worse when that character took PART in the problem that caused them to end up here)
And it's CLEAR that the protag didn't want this to happen and doesn't want the change. Like a exiled duchess is living the commoner life and is perfectly happy with just doing something, like being a florist or something, when suddenly the prince(usually from another country or was a friend but aided in the exile) comes in and is like "Hey lol I'm like soooooo sorry that we did that could you forgive me<3?" Or "I'm gonna marry you even though you clearly don't want me like that at this very moment~"
Like...No???? That's not how it works! ITS EVEN WORSE WHEN EVEN THOUGH THE PROTAG DOESNT LIKE THEM SUDDENLY A ROMANCE IS BORN and not even like they made up for their mistakes and then develop the romance but its just sudden blushing and closeness and then like after in the protags thoughts they are like 'wtf didn't this guy literally hurt me in one of the worst way possible???...but...he's so hot<3'
It's even worse when its NOT just the protag but it had affected the people close to protag like family and friends- like you ended up hurting multiple people STINKER not JUST the protag are you not gonna say sorry to the other people you ended up hurting too? or is it just protag cause "I need my [Redacted] wet"
I dunno- I just- It just gets me heated and makes me angry and end up on some self deprecating rant about stupid opinions i have like this one....I just wanna know if I'm alone in not liking these kinda stories, yknow?
And it's CLEAR that the protag didn't want this to happen and doesn't want the change. Like a exiled duchess is living the commoner life and is perfectly happy with just doing something, like being a florist or something, when suddenly the prince(usually from another country or was a friend but aided in the exile) comes in and is like "Hey lol I'm like soooooo sorry that we did that could you forgive me<3?" Or "I'm gonna marry you even though you clearly don't want me like that at this very moment~"
Like...No???? That's not how it works! ITS EVEN WORSE WHEN EVEN THOUGH THE PROTAG DOESNT LIKE THEM SUDDENLY A ROMANCE IS BORN and not even like they made up for their mistakes and then develop the romance but its just sudden blushing and closeness and then like after in the protags thoughts they are like 'wtf didn't this guy literally hurt me in one of the worst way possible???...but...he's so hot<3'
It's even worse when its NOT just the protag but it had affected the people close to protag like family and friends- like you ended up hurting multiple people STINKER not JUST the protag are you not gonna say sorry to the other people you ended up hurting too? or is it just protag cause "I need my [Redacted] wet"
I dunno- I just- It just gets me heated and makes me angry and end up on some self deprecating rant about stupid opinions i have like this one....I just wanna know if I'm alone in not liking these kinda stories, yknow?
if i want to i will if i want to i will bitch
Sometimes I wonder if I’m possibly on the asexual spectrum. I’ve done the do a couple times, but I honestly feel like it’s overrated.
Anyone, drop down your confession experience. I have a crush in my class and he's really really really my type... I even get pressured when he comes up in the class, like his aura is just so attractive that you can't help but have a mini crush on him. And I just found out I'm not the only one in my class who likes him. I'm afraid I have to keep this crush of mine to myself because he's way out of my league.
so i have a crush on a girl but shes str8(pain) but it doesnt matter rn bcz what my current concern is the one she likes is 3 years older than her SHES A FOOKIN MINOR shes the same age as me (15) lmfao i rlly wanna tell her that shes should stop seeing this guy because shes being groomed but i dont know how to tell her without her getting mad at me she even shared a post quoting "If i like you i dont care abt how old r you" its really concerning, i rlly wanna help her but im afraid since its been like 3months since the last time we talked to each other
SO LIKE BACKGROUND: im a girl and ive noticed this upperclassman of mine and shes like so chill and we were in the same geometry class a few years ago. we got to know each other bc we kinda have the same name LOL (same pronunciation but different spelling oop) and like my sexuality is quaking bc everytime i see her she makes me SWOON. today i was at a restaurant and i saw her working there and i got excited so i went up and said hi. she kinda just said hi and went away and i was like shiit maybe i shouldnt have said anything. but then when i went to get my order she was at the checkout and she gave me a free cookie like one of those freshly made and melts in your mouth ones and i was like ???? wtf and she just shrugged and said it was a gift and told me to hide it and BITCH SHE WAS SO CHILL ABT IT TOO UGH AND SHES ONE OF THOSE QUIET PEOPLE WHO JUST MINDS THEIR OWN BUSINESS AWW IS THIS A GIRL CRUSH OR???? SHE GRADUATED SO THAT SUCKS SHOULD I ASK HER OUT ANYWAYS LIKE WE DONT TALK UNLESS WE RUN INTO EACH OTHER BUT SHIIII SHES SO OOMF
( I just needed to get this out of my conscience). I'm a 17 year old female, and I showed my boobs to someone in omegle. First of all the first time I went there was because of curiousity, nothing else, but then I guess I got tempted into doing it. I met some very horny guys and tbh some of them were kinda hot, so I got lured in by their compliments and did it. So the first time, I went into the website and found this really cute asian guy, we flirted for a while and then it got kinda steamy, so he asked me and I did it. He was 19 I think, but.... I felt really guilty after that . AND THE WORSE THING IS I did it like 4 more times through the next month (some guys were also my age). To protect myself I wore a mask so they could only see my eyes. Honestly I was not horny at all, and none of the experience turned me on. I was very depressed and lonely back then so I kind of just wanted the attention from others, I liked it when they complimented me and told me I was beautiful and how they liked my body and etc; it made me feel less lonely. That was like 5 or 6 months ago so now I am in a better place since I get to hang out with my friends more than before and I'm not as lonely. I relfected on it for a while and came to the conclusion that I have to love my body and respect it and not use it to get a random stranger's attention and compliments because I am lonely . But yeah, I will never tell anyone this in real life until I die.
plz tell me cuz my schools were boring af and im going to start a nerd high school. You can tell me anything about sex, violence etc. It's fine cuz i aint holy.