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so here's the thing the only thing that makes me forget about my problems is animes/mangas/manhwas/bl and my family calls it "useless" because i cant gain anything from it. which makes me doubt myself that all im doing so far is useless. it makes me want to stop but if i stop i dont know what to do with my life anymore. ive been taking a break and stop watching/reading anime/manga. and i realize how lonely i am. when i stop doing things i like all of my problems comes back to me which is super unbearable i dont know what to do with my life anymore.
How could something that makes you content, even if it is just temporary, truly be useless? Of course, you cannot live your entire life buried deep in fiction, but fiction itself is not useless. 1 reply
don't stop doing what you like/feel comfort in just because your family calls it useless. if we use their logic, everything that's for entertainment is "useless". unless you neglect everything else when doing it, i don't see why you have to quit reply
try all sorts of new stuff. Go hiking, go to art museums, learn new languages (french, spanish, and etc.) or find out all you can about what you feel interested in, trust someone like your best friends and this doesnt need to be your parents. so just take care of what you yourself can do. reply
I understand how you feel. I think we are just addicted to fiction because reality is just so plain. Plus anime/manga/etc serves as a distraction. I think you should learn to just read/watch in moderation, meaning that you shouldn’t watch too much so that everyone has to point out that you’re wasting your time. (Btw I myself can’t seem to do...... reply
I understand you. I have the same problem. I watch too much anime/manga. If I stop I just remember all my problems which is very unbearable. I am terribly lonely, I don't have any friends, my life is a mess etc. I just keep thinking about it. So I distract myself with anime or literally anything as long as it makes me stop thinking about other thi...... reply
