does your mom cause unnecessary insecurities

I feel like my mom is way too harsh with my looks sometimes on the smallest things. This comes from just now when my mom looked at me with shock and concern after I took my shirt off, asking, "Did your boobs deflate?" and now I've spent the last 10 minutes searching up what makes boobs deflate
It's always a new issue and it's really hard on my self esteem. Like when I was younger and she gave me a whole speech on how there's two types of noses in the world and I have the potato kind. Or how I sounded like a witch when I laughed. Etc etc. Sometimes, its too much.
She's also kind of hypocritical. Like one day she's saying your thighs are too thin like sticks, and then I gain some weight I guess and she's like damn look at those thighs you should cut back a little. But my weight is the same why give me needless insecurities....