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Should I keep my mouth shut?
Hi guys, well I really need an advice about something. My best friend ex boyfriend is in love with my cousin the problem is my cousin have a crush on him too buuuut both of them are closets bi? I wouldn’t say gay because they likes girls at least the ex boyfriend concerning my cousin I think he’s dating girls in order to hide his true self, I’m so sad for him but this is not the question. They both know I looove yaoi and I’m always supportative for all gay couple in our circle of acquaintances. It’s been already 2 years since my cousin told me about his crush and just few weeks after that my bf ex boyfriend who’s also my friend told me he is in love with my cousin seeking for advice , the two of them makes me promise to never tell. I’m kind of pissed now because I think they’re engaging in short pointless relashionship and always come to me to ask what the other’s doing. Do you think I have the right to say something? Or at least set something to make them moves? Did you ever face this kind of situation?(〜￣△￣)〜
Hi,
It's only my personal opinion, but I think you have right to say something and more importantly to be honest to them. If they ask your opinion and come for advice and things like that, then it's just normal to me that it works in both ways. Just be honest without being rude.
Hope this helps you a bit.
Alex reply
Hey there,
So I'm not saying this is right but, if I were in your situation, what I would do is at least confirm with both your cousin and ex (separately) their feelings for the other. If both agree that they are interested, ask them if they would be interested to know how the other felt. If they are, tell them "then talk to him about this because ...... reply
Yep i've been in your position before, I got one of them to confess to the other and the next day the bastards started dating #－.－) I was like FINALLY.
Ok so they both like each other and your sure about their feelings between each other so there's no problem there really(〜￣△￣)〜. Consider that on obstacle out of the way. I'd say yeah ...... 1 reply
I think you should say something not only because you are friends but it can't really go wrong if they like each other already you know? Maybe they just need a little push to get into soemthing, just my opinion tho, you shouldn't force it either reply
I think that if I'd be in your shoes, I'd try to say to the other party that they might be interested in guys too~
I mean, if you'll talk about it as a possibility, a chance, they might talk about gay relationships and discover each others interest (out of your advice, like saying- hey, do you want me to find out if he's interested in guys? idk).
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