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How do you comfort someone?
I'm actually someone who doesn't want to care with other people's affairs or problems but because of my conscience, I always end up having to comfort other people. Sometimes it's not even intentional, they just come at me for advice and even cry infront of me. I'm gonna be insensitive about this but on moments like that, I just want to leave and sleep or something. But it's not like I can just do that when someone is hurting. But the thing is, I don't really know what to do. I should listen to them if they have something they wanted to share but what should be my responds be if they full on message me on messenger? If it was in person, I'd hug them to comfort but if it were virtually, how?
ok if it were virtually, try to relate to them, and if you have nothing to relate about then you can try to call them or facetime them and listen to them, because most of the time, it's easier to explain it in voice than in text, and just try to understand what they're going trough, put yourself in their shoes, imagine being in their shoes, even if...... reply
If it's virtually.. Then I guess I can just let them type everything they want to let out.... After that I'm gonna relate to them if I can .... And if it's physically , you would just see me sitting besides them while theyre crying, cause shit I feel awkward if I were to hug them,... Even if they're my friends or family.... I don't know shit w...... reply