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I'm so ffffffffffffffffffffffffffking confused these days
So, I'm gay. I like guys. Boom. BUT Recently, I've just been...idk, noticing girls?
And I'm confused af. Am I just liking how they're looking? Like....I'm wondering if it's just me KNOWING that they're attractive and that there is no actual ATTRACTION. Or is there? I'm not sure anymore. And ufckfukc idfk anymore. And then I'm thinking 'should it matter what gender they are? I think I just like people who are awesome and nice' so...like, would that be Pan? WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE EVEN? Google made me more confused when trying to look things up because they're all written by people who are biased and then I'm just super lost right now. I can't even explain my thoughts.
So then I'm more confused beyond confused and, though I'm not big on labels, I still want a basic outline of what I like and don't like, you know? I mean it doesn't need to be put in a box, but at the same time, I want to have...like ugh. idk. I just don't know.
Ah well you might still be gay and just aesthetically attracted to women, or bi, or pan, or homosexual biromantic. Something that helped me figure out my sexuality was asking myself if I’d want to sleep with and/or go on dates with different genders. Regardless, if you don’t know right now, that’s okay. Most people learn with experience and t...... reply
I am no expert and, indeed, I myself and trying to figure out who I am. If I were you I would ask you some simple questions (trying to avoid every thought), like...
- Do I find girls attractive?
- Do I find boys attractive?
- Do you find girls "hot" or sexually arousing?
- Do you find guys "hot" or sexually arousing?
- Who do I see myself in a long...... 1 reply
You said you notice girl in a loving way or just because they look pretty ?
Maybe you like one girl or girls ?
Even if you are "gay" I think you are looking for a person with a good background than just one gender. You've noticed it because it matches all your masculine characteristics. It's just a guess reply
Trying to label yourself will only make you more confused, so just live your life and let things happen. Whoever you fall in love with, it's the person you're attracted to. And even if it happens to be a woman, that doesn't mean you're not gay. Sht just happens. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ reply
hmm how do I answer,,,, girls are so hot idek what to tell you. Like, I can't blame you for finding them attractive, but if you really think that dating a girl would be nice too then you should try it...? I got asked out by a girl 6 years ago and dated her out of curiosity but then boom. that woke me up and I haven't stopped finding girls romantica...... reply
Your bi-sexual there are things about women that you find attractive...yes ?
what you need to do is ask yourself ...what are those things because if it's just appearances then yes you like women as well but if it's more so personality and mannerisms then you might just like women feminine behaviors.... so then your not bi, your just interested in ...... reply
Man I am straight and I find sometimes girls attractive but thinking of kissing or having s@x with them is a NO NO for me.. just I find some off them super attractive but noway I will be in relationship..like wtf boys are so damm hot..
Sometimes I think that if I was a boy probably I will have been gay reply
