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How should i feel??
My bff called me. She said she had plans and lets go camping at the beach in the weekend. But I refused, said I was tired. I did not want to go and i have to prepare for my test on Monday. She got angry like she always does but this time she said some stuff that really hurt me. I feel like I don't have the right to be my own person with her. That I should pay attention to her always. I dont have time for myself. I like spending time with myself sometimes. I need to breathe but it's like she does not want to understand. She ended up insulting me saying things like i'll end up alone and that i am selfish She brought old grudges I did not know she was still holding and said things she knows will hurt me deeply. Then she proceeded to tell me that she was blocking me on every social website she uses.
I dont know what I should do?? I feel hurt and insulted and caged but I also know that she is dear to me. I feel like i am the one whose wrong and that I should apologise while another part of me feels like I should let it be. I am losing my only friend and I feel guilt and relief at the same time. What should I do?? Plz help...☹
You should tell her your honest feelings, make her realize that you need some space and alone time as well. Tell her about how you honestly feel. Understand her and make her understand you. Know each other's true feelings. Settle the problem with her. Maybe you should distance yourself from her for some time and have a self-reflection. Through that...... reply
Answer from a cold-hearted person :
Get rid of her. You do not need this type of people in your life.
Yes it's going to hurt. But you'll be fine. You'll find your real friends in time.
It's sad, but people will keep betraying you until the end. There will always be people that will betray you. What you need to do is find out who are the real frie...... reply
Well, if she really said all those things, she probably felt hurt about some of the things that happened between the two of you, and said them out loud in a fit of anger... She most likely didn't mean to feel that horrible over this one specific thing, but simply felt an overwhelming urge to let out all the feelings that she had been holding inside...... reply
She's probably feeling a bit lonely. It may seem
like you're drawing away from her.. just go up to
her and have a proper conversation. Apologize
and try to make her laugh.
I know you may be tired from all the work piling up but if you don't solve social issues beforehand
you may have conflict in your relationships.
Explain to her that you ne...... reply
Maybe the best solution is to apoligize to her because she may have been hurt in a way, but also tell her that you were not feeling like going out this weekend and that she has to understand that it isn't against her.
I don't think you did wrong but maybe it was important to her. If you want things to go better you might have to make sacrifices. ...... reply
I saw many talk their problems and talk about themselves here. I thought about my own and decided to talk it out.
I never knew I would receive heartfelf advises from you all.
Thank you all so very much. I feel a bit better now. I will call my bff right now and talk things out.
Thank you all again. reply
If it were me, I'd give myself and her some time. If you're really good friends she probably would feel bad after saying things like that, but again probably. There are all kinds of people in the world. If she really doesn't want, then you should give up on her. And she isn't your only friend at all. You can find anyone to talk to any time nowadays...... reply
From what you have said, she doesn't seem like a very good friend. Or maybe she doesn't understand what the word 'friend' means.
She sounds really selfish and self-centered.
Just because you have known this person a long time, does not mean that they are your friend. It just means that you have known them for a long time. AND, sometimes, fri...... 2 reply
Make out with her, that always works in the yuri stories.
Real talk though, this friend is probably acting like this because she doesn't want you to stop hanging out with her, so you turning down her invites to places makes her upset. I would recommend letting her know that you like being friends with her and whatnot, though that probably won't co...... reply
As someone who has been betrayed by a best friend, I understand that hurt you feel, it's painful, it makes you doubt yourself and you start thinking that maybe you're in the wrong and all of this is actually your fault, well, newsflash! It isn't. If they were actually your "best friend" they wouldn't freak out about something so minor or try to hu...... reply
