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How should i feel??
My bff called me. She said she had plans and lets go camping at the beach in the weekend. But I refused, said I was tired. I did not want to go and i have to prepare for my test on Monday. She got angry like she always does but this time she said some stuff that really hurt me. I feel like I don't have the right to be my own person with her. That I should pay attention to her always. I dont have time for myself. I like spending time with myself sometimes. I need to breathe but it's like she does not want to understand. She ended up insulting me saying things like i'll end up alone and that i am selfish She brought old grudges I did not know she was still holding and said things she knows will hurt me deeply. Then she proceeded to tell me that she was blocking me on every social website she uses.
I dont know what I should do?? I feel hurt and insulted and caged but I also know that she is dear to me. I feel like i am the one whose wrong and that I should apologise while another part of me feels like I should let it be. I am losing my only friend and I feel guilt and relief at the same time. What should I do?? Plz help...☹
You should tell her your honest feelings, make her realize that you need some space and alone time as well. Tell her about how you honestly feel. Understand her and make her understand you. Know each other's true feelings. Settle the problem with her. Maybe you should distance yourself from her for some time and have a self-reflection. Through that...... reply
Answer from a cold-hearted person :
Get rid of her. You do not need this type of people in your life.
Yes it's going to hurt. But you'll be fine. You'll find your real friends in time.
It's sad, but people will keep betraying you until the end. There will always be people that will betray you. What you need to do is find out who are the real frie...... reply
Well, if she really said all those things, she probably felt hurt about some of the things that happened between the two of you, and said them out loud in a fit of anger... She most likely didn't mean to feel that horrible over this one specific thing, but simply felt an overwhelming urge to let out all the feelings that she had been holding inside...... reply
Maybe the best solution is to apoligize to her because she may have been hurt in a way, but also tell her that you were not feeling like going out this weekend and that she has to understand that it isn't against her.
I don't think you did wrong but maybe it was important to her. If you want things to go better you might have to make sacrifices. ...... reply
I saw many talk their problems and talk about themselves here. I thought about my own and decided to talk it out.
I never knew I would receive heartfelf advises from you all.
Thank you all so very much. I feel a bit better now. I will call my bff right now and talk things out.
Thank you all again. reply
From what you have said, she doesn't seem like a very good friend. Or maybe she doesn't understand what the word 'friend' means.
She sounds really selfish and self-centered.
Just because you have known this person a long time, does not mean that they are your friend. It just means that you have known them for a long time. AND, sometimes, fri...... 2 reply
As someone who has been betrayed by a best friend, I understand that hurt you feel, it's painful, it makes you doubt yourself and you start thinking that maybe you're in the wrong and all of this is actually your fault, well, newsflash! It isn't. If they were actually your "best friend" they wouldn't freak out about something so minor or try to hu...... reply
TBH I haven't had a friend since 4th grade and I'm a senior in high school now so I don't really know but if I were you I would get new friends. If she constantly wants attention from you and doesn't allow you to be your own person then I'd ditch her. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ 3 reply
To be honest what you are feeling is completely normal. I personally am one that likes being alone. Sure I spend time with friends and family, but at the end of the day I wanna be alone and able to breath if that makes sense. If your friend can't understand that then she is immature and selfish. If she demands attention and won't let you just have ...... reply
I understand what you might be going through and I know for certain that it's very hard to lose a close friend. But if she's always making you feel negative emotions is she really that good of a friend to you??? She sounds rather selfish from what I've heard from your comment, and while it's true that friends have conflicts once in a while, if it's...... 1 reply
