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have you told someone about yaoi and betrayed you?and did you ever feel ashamed from it?
so i got into yaoi when i was about 10 years old it was something i could get sucked into it and forget about reality for a few hours you know and i didn't have someone to talk to? A few year later i told my cousin because he the closest person i can relate to in my family and he gave me a look of utter disgust so i felt ashamed from reading yaoi? i moved on form that and i told my closet friends they said OK and we'll keep it a secret it they always torment me about it saying you read about sex and guys getting pregnant and sex and dicks they looked in my dairy and found manga's of yaoi stories and said it out loud in the class luckily nobody heard them and i felt betrayed at that moment and ashamed because they kept bullying me about it and i don't know why i keep hanging around them in school maybe because i'll be alone in school and i'n not the most popular one n school so i usually don't go out of the house to go out it'd been 4 months already and they treat me like a 4th wheel and i'm afraid that if i tell my friend that i treat her like a sister she'll be disgusted of me. i really don't want to lose anymore friends anymore. did anyone ever feel like that before. it's just that i really relate to yaoi
I've never felt the need to tell anyone since yaoi is essentially gay porn. I've always been just content with enjoying it privately tho. And with homophobia running rampant where I live I'm especially not jumping to tell anyone. I'm sorry this happened to you OP. People irl wouldn't understand, especially if they're homophobic or don't watch anime...... 2 reply
Mmmm I forget when was it, Im freshman I junior high, I met two girl and know we become bestfriend. We were into kpop, then I found there are love between same sex and there were lots of yaoi.pict of my fave band, then I post it to my fb, and everyone in fb insulted me, but not my junior high, they only said you had some gut. Then my two best frien...... 1 reply
I also started reading yaoi when I was about 12 and it seems like it's been an eternity since then. I have never told any member of my family about it mainly because my family is highly homophobic. Sometime about 3 years ago I have switched to gay fanfic and sometimes I return to manga and OVAs. I have told some friends since then and not one has j...... 2 reply
I'm sorry to say but i think you chose the wrong people to tell. Personally, I am a blunt/mature/detached person and don't really get hurt by people insulting me so I can stand to let my friends know.
All my friends know I read (and draw) yaoi. I guess you could say I'm lucky, or maybe that I choose my friends well. My theory is that I just attrac...... 4 reply
I can relate to this. I have a close friend who also watches anim and reads manga, so I told her that I liked yaoi. She acted fine with it to my face but then in one of our classes she started talking about how I like to read about gay guys and that it's disgusting. She always made fun of me for it, since everyone else did. Luckily I was strong eno...... 2 reply
i've told my cousins about it. the girls. but they don't like it. though one is showing interest on it since she has a friends who likes BL too. yaoi is totally not just gay porn. i mean for me, okay?, for me porn is something that is all sex and no story just sex that is the story all you see is that scene literally. i took a course full of men , ...... reply
Now I feel like telling my friends I read yaoi. Only a few of them know. Not the male ones they'd never let me live it down. Honestly, they are suspicious that I read it and are trying trap me.
If you want to tell someone you should be confident. Like this is what I read. Or you can say it all nonchalant like me. Like whatever it's not a big deal...... 2 reply
Wow, that sucks :-/ I told a friend years ago, think she found a book or something so it came out. At least I thought she was a friend, but then she told the entire group of people we hung out with and they all made fun of me really badly. And we'll I was young and insecure and couldn't really stand up for myself so I felt really ashamed and humili...... reply
MAI GOD THIS QUESTION IS TOO REALISTIC, DEMN, SOMETHING LIKE THAT HAPPENING IN MY LIFE NOT REALLY LONG AGO HAHA //sorry for the bad english//
yep, n that was my mom!. at first when i said n explain ab yaoi, shounen ai, gays, ( well LGBT?) i always thing that "oh if i say these things to mom, maybe mom will be happy '' or something, haha :'D. but...... reply
