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have you told someone about yaoi and betrayed you?and did you ever feel ashamed from it?
so i got into yaoi when i was about 10 years old it was something i could get sucked into it and forget about reality for a few hours you know and i didn't have someone to talk to? A few year later i told my cousin because he the closest person i can relate to in my family and he gave me a look of utter disgust so i felt ashamed from reading yaoi? i moved on form that and i told my closet friends they said OK and we'll keep it a secret it they always torment me about it saying you read about sex and guys getting pregnant and sex and dicks they looked in my dairy and found manga's of yaoi stories and said it out loud in the class luckily nobody heard them and i felt betrayed at that moment and ashamed because they kept bullying me about it and i don't know why i keep hanging around them in school maybe because i'll be alone in school and i'n not the most popular one n school so i usually don't go out of the house to go out it'd been 4 months already and they treat me like a 4th wheel and i'm afraid that if i tell my friend that i treat her like a sister she'll be disgusted of me. i really don't want to lose anymore friends anymore. did anyone ever feel like that before. it's just that i really relate to yaoi
I've never felt the need to tell anyone since yaoi is essentially gay porn. I've always been just content with enjoying it privately tho. And with homophobia running rampant where I live I'm especially not jumping to tell anyone. I'm sorry this happened to you OP. People irl wouldn't understand, especially if they're homophobic or don't watch anime...... 2 reply
Be proud of what you are. There's nothing you should be ashamed of ! These people don't still to be your real friends though. People who judge you don't want your true happiness, or else really feel bad on their own.
I totally relate to this need to tell someone. But I think you should be a bit more cautious with this kind of thing. There will alwa...... 1 reply
Mmmm I forget when was it, Im freshman I junior high, I met two girl and know we become bestfriend. We were into kpop, then I found there are love between same sex and there were lots of yaoi.pict of my fave band, then I post it to my fb, and everyone in fb insulted me, but not my junior high, they only said you had some gut. Then my two best frien...... 1 reply
I also started reading yaoi when I was about 12 and it seems like it's been an eternity since then. I have never told any member of my family about it mainly because my family is highly homophobic. Sometime about 3 years ago I have switched to gay fanfic and sometimes I return to manga and OVAs. I have told some friends since then and not one has j...... 2 reply
I'm sorry to say but i think you chose the wrong people to tell. Personally, I am a blunt/mature/detached person and don't really get hurt by people insulting me so I can stand to let my friends know.
All my friends know I read (and draw) yaoi. I guess you could say I'm lucky, or maybe that I choose my friends well. My theory is that I just attrac...... 4 reply
I really feel sorry for you, to be in that situation must be really tough... first of all Im sorry for my english, Im still learning.
I don't think you should be ashamed to read something that you really like, reading Yaoi, or Yuri, or anything is not bad!! You are reading love stories!! How in the world that would be wrong? I know that even in thi...... reply
I can relate to this. I have a close friend who also watches anim and reads manga, so I told her that I liked yaoi. She acted fine with it to my face but then in one of our classes she started talking about how I like to read about gay guys and that it's disgusting. She always made fun of me for it, since everyone else did. Luckily I was strong eno...... 2 reply
i've told my cousins about it. the girls. but they don't like it. though one is showing interest on it since she has a friends who likes BL too. yaoi is totally not just gay porn. i mean for me, okay?, for me porn is something that is all sex and no story just sex that is the story all you see is that scene literally. i took a course full of men , ...... reply
yup! i was betrayed... my frnd told me she is interested to see what i was all day like crazy . i told her about it she wanted to watch. So, i gave her the manga. The very next day, while all of our frnds were sitting together at the canteen she told everyone that i watch yaoi , i also made her watch (what the Hell !? ) and it was disgusting ! i co...... 1 reply
they arent your friends...
friends arent suppose to treat you like that..
Im lucky to have friends now, who share the same interests as i do.
and for those that dont, they accept that.
in the past,i told the people who i thought were my friends that i read/watch anime in general, they made fun of me afterwards, i just stayed away from them and ig...... reply
