to some up what happened: 1) woman has to go to hospital bc her boyfriend destroyed her cervix during sex 2) she starts crying but he continues and even calls her degrading names 3) she makes a video explaining what happened and defending him by saying that during the act she blanked out and couldn't say the safeword. 4) people in the comments were calling others "vanilla" for calling it rape. which it is.
yeah...................................
i'll gladly be a vanilla prude idgaf. y'all can have that bdsm shit lol.
OK, maybe stop if your partner passes out and can't say the safeword...? Like, if she was screaming and suddenly stops and goes limp, YOU CAN CLEARLY TELL SOMETHING IS NOT DAIJOOBU.
I have asked myself multiple times in my life if I was part of the BDSM community (still not entirely sure about that), but man... That's just fucked. It's all based o...... reply
bdsm can be such an incredibly dangerous thing to be a part of. it’s a community where if you have a partner, you should constantly check in on them, some may think it ruins the vibe but safety should be a priority in this. If someone goes limp or passes out, stop. If they’re telling you to stop and screaming, ask them if they want to use the s...... 1 reply
I've been practicing really HxC BDSM for decades...because that's my jam.
With my partners we have safe words, rules(about drugs, alcohol, losing conciousness, saying no or stop, crying, etc.) and yes, I do get badly injured once in a while.
Do I regret it? No, because that's my choice and what I like, I know the dangers, and accidents do happen......... 1 reply
