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PSA #4: Mlm issues and why you don't have a say in them
As much as y'all love to say that men don't get a say on women's issues, or that white people don't get a say on poc's issues (both of which are true), y'all, at least on here, do that exact thing to mlm people.
Non-mlm people, *including lgbt+ women*, do *not* and will *never* have a say in what constitutes as fetishizing mlm people, or a say in what does or doesn't affect us and how. You do not get to have a seat at the table for things that pertain to a group of people you aren't even a part of.
And yes, that extends to discourse on and around yaoi/bl.
tbh yeah
like, you're allowed to read yaoi and enjoy it, idc what you personally do with your life. it's just Really frustrating that all discussions of mlm sexuality around here are led by people who aren't mlm and often by people who won't even consider mlm voices if it doesn't agree with what they already believe
i read shoujo and yuri manga som...... reply
