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Help ;>;
I have a friend and their female. I am also female myself but my friend thinks we are dating and i only like guys, she has confessed to me before but i turned her down we got closer as friends and she thinks we are dating..I feel bad because i dont know what i should tell her and I´ve probably been giving her mixed signals and i feel bad plus I´ve never dated before and i dont want to embarrass her ;-; i need help please
also tysm for helping me out if you did ;-; i dont have any other social media other than this (strict parents lol)
Damn I want to be like everyone by just saying just be straight up with her but in reality I mean who would do that right? I don’t really know how I could help you besides maybe giving her hints ur straight but I wish u luck :) 2 reply
You need to be direct and not give her mixed signals she shouldn't even think you guys are together to begin with when you already told her no it's nice to be gentle about the rejection but I think you should be clear cut with her just in case reply
I would just politely say that you like guys and are not interested in girls. Also same, my parents won’t let me have social media except Pinterest so .
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Pls tell her also your not in the wrong shit happens just let her down gently and tell her you don't like girl but you like your friendship and you would like to continue it if u want too
Good luck 1 reply
How to handle such a situation varies from person to person but I'd say the general rule of thumb is to tell her the harsh truth.
Prolonging it anyhow by making non-obvious comments or trying to talk it pretty makes it harder for both of you and more painful for her. If you want to keep her as a friend tell her that, tell her that you're not uncom...... 1 reply
Introduce her to a guy claiming that he is your boyfriend, and a while after just tell her that you broke up with him, that way she won’t be heartbroken and she will understand that you’re in a relationship so she won’t pressure you anymore 2 reply
My advice is to sit her down and slowly and gently tell her you don't like her. Like just
You: "hey ******** I wanted to talk to you abt something"
Them: "what is it?"
You: "some of my other friends were teasing me abt dating you and I think you think that too so I wanted to tell you that I don't like you that way. Please understand where I'm comi...... reply
You could try to tell her how she's a really good FRIEND. And keep saying you really happy that she's your FRIEND. It must be really hard trying nit to hurt your friend's feelings, I this helps. reply
just be straight up with her, it’ll be a good chance to learn to be direct w how you feel + help her w rejection. i was in a situation like this before n i ended up distancing the person without talking it out w them, one of my bigger regrets for sure 1 reply
