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how to know your getting abused by your parents?
i dont really know if im getting abused but if i make one wrong move i get scolded or punished and they say its "disipline" ive keep up w/ this disipline for years and they call me useless everytime i get a failing class they also beat me. i dont know if im overreacting on this stuff becuz im sensitive. im a really sensitive person and idk whether im overreacting or not...
You are not being sensitive, and it is a form of abuse. Don’t worry, you’re not alone in this situation. I also have to deal with this form of “discipline”. Whoever is abusing you doesn’t understand how to correctly discipline. Let me know if you want to talk! I’m always open :) reply
hahaha sameee.. i just realized it late because they kept manipulating me that they were doing it for me and i would thank them in the future... i realized it was abuse when i noticed when talking to "friends"(i wasnt alowed to have friends and if i did they would manipulate me that they are here because they needed something from me. and that i co...... reply
Calling you useless every time is a bit insensitive but depending on the kind of people they are that might be fine. Also how far do they go in punishing you? It depends on that if it's abuse or not. reply
There's a distinct line between abuse and discipline. A parent should never call their child useless or talk down to them even when they're angry. A parent also shouldn't hurt their child out of anger. If you feel like your parents are causing physical or psychological harm to you without provocation then you could call someone for help. Online cha...... reply
Yeahh thats abuse, its nothing wrong with discipline but they aren't disciplining you, if you need someone to talk to me, im right here for you :) reply
"they also beat me"
the way you added that makes me think you're making shit up
if they're scolding their fuck-up kid, that's not abuse
if you're being beaten, that is reply
That's not being sensitive. I don't know what country you're from so i don't know the laws on hitting kids. But anything past spanking is abuse, though i don't agree with violence in any way. Telling you you're useless is also not okay. Though unless they are hitting you to the point where you have bruises there is not much you can do. If you feel ...... reply
