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what do u guys think ab the bl fetishizaton discourse!
What do you guys think about it? I think that women can read bl, but if they read basically gay p*rn that's weird and if they find it hot AND get off to it that's a no no.
Its literally the same as men getting off on lesbian porn, it only gets weird once people start saying gross shit like "uwu,my fave bottom owo" or something like that, or shipping people only for the fact there both of the same sex, stuff like that, if you're not doing anything that I've written down then you're good I guess lol reply
i am not mlm but i think reading bls and gls are fine until you get into others business about it. like sometimes how (most of the times) straight men would fetishise wlw or bisexual women. reply
noone talks sh*t on men reading gl,,, so why is it an issue when women read bl. as long as youre not fetishizing real people there should be no issue. you should know the difference between 2d and 3d 1 reply
I am a woman who read a lot of BL. I am also a lesbian. Yes, there is a lot of smutty yaoi; there is also a lot of yaois without a single-sex scene. The conclusion that yaoi is gay porn misses a lot of great stories.
I have met people in the LGBT community (both men and women) who have used BL stories to cope with coming out and searching for a c...... 2 reply
In my eyes, getting off to only the sex and not the actual relationship is fine, if you’re only there for some 2-D dick on dick, and couldn’t care less if they were gay, then cool, have at it!
But if you start looking at actual couples to have sex with or thinking you would want to be in that position in real life, they’re something seriously...... reply
if the bl we're talking about is yaoi, then I'm utterly confused. Isn't porn basically made for the purpose of getting off to? This is like saying writing on paper is weird and wrong.
If you're talking about a different thing, then i suggest to make your comment more clear than just beating around the bush. reply
I’ve read a lot of discourse on this subject over the years and for the life of me can’t find the Tumblr post that made it all click for me personally but the eye opening hypothesis is basically females have a hard time understanding or feeling comfortable with our own sexual desires. We all live in a patriarchal society where females are often...... 1 reply
Well what I want to say is stfu. Bcs at this point it's the same repeating argument. Without real solution. Unless u had the solution. And then you can yapping all u want. Really what's the solution at this point u guys just whining. 2 reply
