Did/Does anyone else’s parents make it seem like not being afraid of them was disrespectful?

scenario 1 my mum: *angry, nagging* me: tries to tell my reason my mum: SO U KNOW HOW TO TALK BACK NOW HUH scenario 2 my mum: *angry, nagging* me: keeps quiet my mum: ARE U JUST GOING TO KEEP SILENT AND IGNORE WHAT I SAID??? mum what do u want me to do??????   reply