so i'd like to say, im sorry if i hurt anyones feelings. black kageyama helped clear it up for me, thank you. earlier somewhere in an answer i mentioned heterophobia and others said it wasnt real. i went on to create a post about it without much thought.
it was influenced by something that happened to me and my lover in real life recently. im just really shaken up mentally by it and mislabeled what i experienced. what i dealt with was bigotry by a wlw fetishist, not heterophobia.
these few lines sort of changed my mind: "*most* people don’t have prejudice or bias against straight people. It’s not a big enough phenomenon to give it its own word." "Straight people are not discriminated against. Straight people rarely receive bigotry because of how normalized being straight is. Straight people are not oppressed."
again, im so sorry to anyone whose feelings were hurt. im not completely convinced yet but i just need some time to heal after what happened to me. im not in the right mind rn
