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How did you guys come out?
im bi
with my friends it was easy i just let them know and they took some time to accept it and stop seeing me and being in love with every girl ive ever laid my eyes on but,,,,,,, i stopped being friends with a lot of them and with my current group i cant remember a time when i wasnt out.
as for my family, i just told my sister i was dating a girl she thought was my friend and she asked for all the details as sisters do. shes probably always known i was gay. with my mum it was more like, my girlfriend told her parents and they freaked out and she was gonna stay with me but her parents demanded that either i tell my mum or they do. so i told her the reason my "friend" got kicked out was because i was dating her. she said theres worse things i could be and hugged me and took my sister, me and my girlfriend on a roadtrip so id stop being so upset.
i wish i wasnt forced to come out to my mum because i never thought id have to come out to her id just bring a girl home one day and thatd be that. but its whatever, i still cry a little when i think about how much pain i went through that day. i wish id let them tell her because shed totally have sided with me.
I think I’m more of the not coming out type. Like I knew I liked girls and boys since I was a young girl but I’m frol Africa and homosexuality isn’t really talked about. Moving to Europe some years after, I realized there was nothing wrong with me but my family are dedicated Christians. So I don’t feel the need “come out” because my sex...... 2 reply
I’m still in the questioning phase, but I came out to my mom as non binary and attracted to women (now there are some changes but currently very accurate). On the faithful June 7th of 2019 I wrote my mom a seven pages letter discussing my sexuality along with my gender and religious identity. I didn’t get such a warm reaction. She cried because...... 2 reply
As an asian kid, no- I am too scared for my own family's opinion about my sexuality, would they be angry, will they not take it well? many thoughts come up in my mind, life is hard, yes but i came out to my friend and to some strangers to whom i have met just one day. 2 reply
(Bi) Never really had a big coming out moment since I've never felt the need to do so. With my sisters it has always been a casual speculation conversation, and they like girls as well anyways. Same with one of my friends, I was just casually speculating with her and she didn't bat an eyelid. With my mom it happened when we were talking about my si...... 1 reply
Im Pansexual, but i never came out to my parents cause their homophobic I just told my sister because me and her are nothing like are mom.She supported me and did not look at me different.I used to never tell my sister who i liked but now that she knows i like girls too i feel more comfortable to talk about who I like.All my friends know too, they ...... 1 reply
My experience was very bad. I came to 2 of my friends. Even though I explicitly told them not to tell anyone, one of them told a lot of people who then told a lot of people. It sucked. I was outed and basically the whole school knew. Thankfully I moved to another country. (By coincidence btw). No one in my family knows. I'd like it to stay that way...... reply
ooh can i still answer the question? it was really easy for me actually, not meaning to brag at all, but i’ve always been an honest person who speaks their mind. so for my friends, i’ve always been like “hey, your cute” or “hey, you look really nice today” to drop hints. i eventually came out as bisexual because it kept on eating at me,...... reply
Mine was pretty bothersome tbh (for the record, I'm MtF trans, but I wasn't aware of it back then), me and my boyfriend broke up back when I was 20, and I was so emotionally devastated that I could only stay home crying every day and could no longer leave my house to go to university.
After staying some 2 months like that I lost the uni semester a...... reply
