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i’ve been feelings really guilty lately... ever since bl got a ton of controversy through twitter and tiktok i’ve been feeling really uneasy reading bl. i still read it ofc but whenever a sex scene pops up there’s always something in the back of my mind telling me “you’re fetishizing gay men” and it makes me feel so so guilty!!
i’ve been reading bl/gl since 2019 and since then it’s been my serotonin. but there’s people saying that gl fetishizes lesbians and bl fetishizes gay men and now idek anymore
If you read BL/GL in your free time just because you want something about romance, then it doesn't necessarily mean you have a fetish for gays or lesbians. It actually just means that after work/school you like to read some stories online of that type. The problem is when you go around asking real gay guys "who's the top and who's the bottom" as if...... reply