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GIVE ME RELATIONSHIP ADVICES PLS
k so i kinda just asked my friend out, impulsively. i dont actually like her but the topic just came up in our conversation and i asked if she wanted to be my girlfriend, jokingly ofc, but she SAID YES AND NOW IDK WHAT TO DO BC I HAVE COMMITMENT ISSUES AND I ONLY SEE HER AS A FRIEND AND THIS IS ALSO MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP SO IDK IF I SHOULD CONTINUE IT FOR A WHILE OR TELL HER TO STOP. she probably knows i dont actually have feelings for her but then again she flirts with me a lot so maybe she likes me?????? overall shes a nice girl so i do wanna try it out with her, so i just really need relationship advices, like how often should i text her, what do we talk about, do we have to facetime, what can we do on dates? basically anything u can come out with because i really dont know what to do and im just really awkward. thank u so much. PS: im a girl!!!
honestly tell her the truth, better than leading her on. and get to know her on a deeper level if you rlly wanna try things out and go from there! 1 reply
just tell her the truth and explain the situation... you don't have commitment issues, you're just dating someone you don't love. and sometimes they don't know if you actually like them, just ask her how she actually feels about the situation, then proceed to tell her.
if she decides she doesn't want to be friends, then let the friendship go. (hap...... 1 reply
Don’t overthink it! text her the same amount you usually do, talk about what you normally do, facetime if you feel like it. a relationship is friends plus extra. the great thing about you already being friends is you already like each other and have stuff in common. also, let her know you’re a bit insecure since it’s your first relationship. ...... 1 reply
Honesty is key. If you want to make it work I wouldn’t tell her you asked as a joke because that can be hurtful if she really likes you. The good thing is you guys started off as friends so just talk about what you always do. Only difference is to make sure to txt her good morning and goodnight and feel free to utilize pet names if you feel comfo...... 1 reply
Okay so I’m not really sure if I can be much of a help but I’ll try. You said you would want to try it out with her wich I just guess right now you’re not really sure about dating a girl. There’s nothing wrong with it but maybe tell her that. She should know that you’re new to this (if she is too just figure it out together). As for relat...... 2 reply
id say text her good morning and good night and the rest of the day just text as you would normally. Also its not necessary to facetime, if you want to you can but if its awkward you dont have to do it.
With the date thing it really depends on a lot. First of all it depends on your and her interests, its best if you find something where your inter...... 1 reply
