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Has anyone feel this or I’m just an asshole?
I know it’s dumb and I’m not trying to be the gatekeeper here, but I enjoy liking unpopular things. They make me feel comfortable, like I have a space for me in the world. When some of these things get popular it’s not that I start disliking them, but they lose their enchant to me. I won’t tell ppl “oh don’t listen to that” or stop showing them things, but sometimes I just want That Thing to be a me thing. I want to feel special some way.
I don’t think that’s being an asshole, that’s just being human. It’s hard for anyone when you feel like your individuality is being ripped away from you.
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omg this is so me, whenever i see heteros taking over queer songs which is made by gay artists and for gay people i get so mad, idk i may just be a asshole but its my safe place, its a safe place for gay people there are just so much other songs and movies for straight people literally everything is for them reply
I know what you mean, I have some books that I really cherish and even though I know that obviously I'm not the only one reading them they're a safe space and really important to me. I don't even tell my friend about them because it's a thing that feels like it belongs to me and I'm afraid that they wouldn't be able to appreciate them the way that ...... reply
