help please: am i bisexual or lesbian

so basically i am sexually attracted to women and women only. yes, i find some men handsome, or good looking but i do not want to be in a relationship or have sex with one. i would love to date a women tho.
(basically i’m confused bc i find men attractive but not in a way where i want to be with them.) or maybe sometimes i’ll think i HAVE to be with a dude cuz my parents are homophobic and i’ve been told my whole life marrying a man is the on,y way to go