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I know this dude for about a year and a about 3-4 months ago he confessed to me. Back then I really thought I liked him but I wasn’t so sure so I told him “hey i think I like you too but let’s wait a little longer”. So I’ve been thinking things through since then. While we were in the “waiting” period, I’ve told him multiple times that I tend to do something and back out, please don’t do anything in this period that you will regret, and other stuffs that would ready him if ever it’s really not the same. After I’ve thought it through, I told him that it wasn’t and that I mistook it for friendship (stupid of me Ik) but now.... he’s blaming me for leading him on, that now he’s depressed cuz of me, that he can’t feel anymore. Is it really my fault? I accepted everything he told me but is it really my fault?
no ma'am,I am exactly like you..i mistake everything for something else.In my opinion you did a good thing.You should be completely sure about a relationship, if not then its okay to take some time to figure out how you really feel.I think that what he told you was unnecessary?Hes making you feel guilty and thats not right..he is also part of this ...... reply
Nah you did well. Your told him from the very beginning that you were not sure and that it may not turn out the way he wants. He's the one who got his hopes up. I think he's just trying to find someone to blame. reply
No, it's not your fault. If you really think you lead him on, then you lead him on. But if you feel like you didn't, it is entirely not your fault and this guy is just depressed over feelings that just won't happen. You didn't do anything wrong, and I do not think you should have accepted what he told but just say, "okay," for what he thought you d...... reply
If you were clear with him about the fact that you weren't sure about the nature of your feelings for him and that you hadn't decided whether or not you wanted to enter a relationship with him (as you say you did), then you absolutely did not lead him on and he should not accuse you of doing so. It's completely fine (and normal!) for him to be upse...... reply
