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How to get over a person (crush,ex,etc.)?
I had this guy who i really loved(lets name him vic) so Long story made short, Vic is like one of the first guys i really fell inlove with then heres comes (Dan) I like him so much that we're in a relationship. I love Dan but i still cant get over Vic. I still have a little feelings. any advice?
Definitely try to think of all of the things about Vic you didn't like. If you don't have anything you didn't like about him, that's probably a sign you didn't know him as well as you thought. If you have to make up/ speculate not so great things about him try that too. Every time you feel like you miss him remind yourself of these, remind yourself...... reply
have you tried to give vic a realist and cold look? i mean really long and hard look, specially focus in his flaws, weakness and annoying habits, most of the time when we find ourselves being fond of someone in our past is because we came to idealize this person and only their good qualities come to mind, when in reality no one is perfect 2 reply
I would say to maybe write a story, or if you would rather draw, about you and Vic. Draw/write the passion between you two and then illustrate the ending you wanted rather than the one you got.
Maybe a simple waving each other away, wishing the best for one another, give yourself some sort of closure.
Then from one ending, make yourself a story/dr...... 1 reply
But why’d you say goodbye? So you like Vic Dan comes along and your like Dan your mine now bye Vic why did you leave if you loved him?
Anyways it’s really hard to get over your feeling shut they should eventually fade if you really love and are happy with Dan 1 reply
everyone gets over heartbreak differently :,) the best thing i could say for u is that u should let time heal u and u should be the one to decide when you’re ready to let go & move on. i recommend talking it out with your friends and reviewing where it went wrong. just remember no specific person is at fault and that it’s ok to feel heartbroken...... reply
Huh. Do you have his contact info? If you do, contact him, if you don't well.. maybe you should tell your boyfriend about it, he might be able to help you get over "vic". 2 reply
I definitely think give yourself time to get over Vic, let yourself process the emotions naturally!
as you've got Dan who you're in a mutual relationship with, I'd say maybe focus on how wonderful Dan is instead ^^ reply
