Sorry, guys! During system maintenance, some functions like comment are unavailable.
you too?
I've seen a lot talk about toxic coming-outs to family but am I the only one who had/having a hard time accepting themselves?
~RANT ALERT~
my family just always has always been homophobic and only believes there are only 2 genders and it kind of rubbed off on me so when i stated finding out girls were attractive and didn't feel like i was just "female" i started being toxic towards myself and sometimes i still go through these depressing and toxic episodes
this is normal and a lot of people experience internalized homophobia and transphobia! honestly all i can offer is: don't feel like you have to label yourself. forcing yourself to identify as something you grew up learning was wrong is hard. i'm still trying to figure out if i'm attracted to men or just clinging to the idea because of my own strugg...... reply