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Okey so, i saw a message on my father's phone it's kinda unusual cuz he never use phone only when he calls his sister or his cousin. And well yea i read the message it was about he asks a woman how's her day ect, he also send her like "good morning/night" everyday when she never answer. It's kinda uncomfortable to talk with him rn, i never had any problem with him and i know if my mother will find out here will be a big problem (if my mom gets angry she would break things) Should i send him a message so he will read it in morning? Bc maybe if i talk w him today my mother will hear it.. (sorry for bad english, just can't think straight rn..)
idk.. maybe you should try talking to your mom about it like tell her "hypothetically, this this this happened, what would you do" and see how she reacts?? also if you approach him, he could delete the messages and you'll have no proof so try to maybe get picture then ask him so if he does lie and play victim, at least you have proof..?? either way...... reply
No pls don't text anything, u may make it even worse as u said the other side is not responding ...I think u should just ignore it n if u feel uncomfortable with ur father avoid talking with him for a while ,if don't want to make it seem obvious that u r avoiding then just answer him if he asks anything normally but don't start talk until u feel ur...... reply
It's up to you what you do, but this is your parents business. You could probably text your dad that you know, but what would that change? It's probably best to ask anyway, before you make too many assumptions. reply
Honestly i think, since your mom has a tendency to react in such a way, the best thing to do would be to confront your dad about this. Find a right timing i think that your mom wasn't there when the 2 of u talk. Although this is between your parents, u still have a position on this since it involves your family relationship. Better to clear things ...... reply
