I am a girl, who's way more comfortable with people using male pronouns with me. I want to look as androgynous as possible, and I usually dislike when people compare me or refer to me with any feminine reference. But I don't want to become a guy. I'm good with my body and my sex. I'm sexually a girl, but my gender is male. And I'm fine with this. My girlfriend understood that I love myself being a girl, but not feminine. And it honestly feels so good to be understood.
Ya so lucky your gf accepts it dude! I'm non-binary but sex is feminine and that's hard to live everyday for me. I'm akward with both male and female pronouns so people never know which one to use with me because we don't have any "official" neutral pronoun like the "they" in english (and every word in French has a freaking gender)
I hate when people call me with feminine nicknames but I don't like when they call me "Mister" too But my friends think it's too complicated so 90% of them treat me like a girl... I wish they understand how I feel and stop seeing me like a girl...
Oh I completely understand your neutral problem Bro. I'm French too so I really understand the struggle. Gender is so complicated honestly.
Yeah, my friends don't really know this part of me because I'm not the talkative kind of person but they somehow know it, so they act/talk to me as if I'm a dude, with female pronouns. The female pronouns don't really triggers me, it's a bit bothering but since I'm a girl I guess it's only natural for them so I don't really mind unless they're becoming a bit too girly with me lol
Maybe ask them to call you with something that doesn't bother you too much? I told my friends not to use my real name too much (bc obviously it's too feminine for me) so they use some nicknames like, Luce/Lu' whatever they want. Sometimes they just call me "Meuf". It's pretty much fem related but since it's not my name or too fem for me I just kind of got used to it. But they do treat me like a guy though
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Yeah, I'm a bisexual tomboy too, I get u.
I feel the same but don't know how to live on like this. I want a permanent solution.
I feel you mate. It sucks that there is no permanent solution. Maybe try to talk this out with some of your closest friends ?
Here no one would listen to my shit. The main problem is getting along. Anyways, thanks for your concern.
If you need to talk, I'm here. Maybe I we can find something to help.
Ya so lucky your gf accepts it dude!
I'm non-binary but sex is feminine and that's hard to live everyday for me.
I'm akward with both male and female pronouns so people never know which one to use with me because we don't have any "official" neutral pronoun like the "they" in english (and every word in French has a freaking gender)
I hate when people call me with feminine nicknames but I don't like when they call me "Mister" too
But my friends think it's too complicated so 90% of them treat me like a girl...
I wish they understand how I feel and stop seeing me like a girl...
Oh I completely understand your neutral problem Bro. I'm French too so I really understand the struggle.
Gender is so complicated honestly.
Yeah, my friends don't really know this part of me because I'm not the talkative kind of person but they somehow know it, so they act/talk to me as if I'm a dude, with female pronouns. The female pronouns don't really triggers me, it's a bit bothering but since I'm a girl I guess it's only natural for them so I don't really mind unless they're becoming a bit too girly with me lol
Maybe ask them to call you with something that doesn't bother you too much? I told my friends not to use my real name too much (bc obviously it's too feminine for me) so they use some nicknames like, Luce/Lu' whatever they want. Sometimes they just call me "Meuf". It's pretty much fem related but since it's not my name or too fem for me I just kind of got used to it. But they do treat me like a guy though
I feel this so hard