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is it normal to have 0 romantic experience at 18
i'm a high school senior, i'm turning 18 this year and also graduating soon and i have literally had no romantic experience whatsoever. when i tell people this they're always like "yeah i've never rlly had a bf/gf before either!" but like ... i seriously have never had ANY type of that experience. people have had their first kiss in like elementary school, or maybe in middle school, or there are rumours about someone who likes them, or maybe they crush really hard on someone and ask them out, or maybe someone has asked them before. in fact, i've barely had a crush on anyone before. it's not that i'm questioning my sexuality either, i know i'm not aromantic or asexual because i've fantasized about romance before but i've never had a crush on anyone i know, male or female.
i'm almost 18 and never had my first kiss, never held anyone's hand romantically, never had a crush rumour, never been asked out, never asked anyone out. i don't think i'm THAT ugly or unappealing but seriously i'm starting to feel like either there's something wrong with me or i just am not attractive, plain and simple lol
Yeah. Society is too obsessed with romantic relationships, so don't feel too much pressure. You should ask someone out that you're attracted to start things out. If you're not attracted to anyone, idk. 1 reply
I'm almost 19 and I still haven't experience once relationship. It fine as it is. You will find your first love sooner or later is the same. Our world not like manga or anime but a realistic. We be ourselves and eventually someone will like the way you are. Gambate (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ reply
bruh im 21 and ive done nothing loll. Also, coming from someone who is aromantic and asexual, aromantic people can still fantasize and enjoy the idea of romance, it's just that they don't feel any romantic feelings for people. Though sexuality is a spectrum, so it's really up to you. I also had a really hard time wondering whether there was somethi...... reply
I'm 20 and I used to have the same insecurities in high school. I still have no experience lol. The only difference is that I stopped caring. It's not your fault. There's nothing wrong with you. Some people are just late bloomers. Sometimes you don't have the opportunity. Sometimes you just don't meet anyone in high school that steals your heart. O...... 1 reply
It's normal, and there's nothing wrong with having no romantic experience at 18. You're still young bubs and it's okay!
Having a romantic life isn't about the first kisses, holding someone's hand romantically, a crush rumor or asking people out. It's about building relationships with your possible partner that you might live with for the rest of ...... reply
Same. But the reason no one’s ever shown interest in me is because I’m socially awkward. Maybe people find you unapproachable or don’t have much of an impression of you? That’s the problem in my case. It’s probably not your appearance, and if it is, it’s the way you present yourself rather than your actual features. I’m traditionally ...... reply
