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How do I keep connections?
I often lose interest and complain about being lonely when I don't make an effort into keeping my friendships. I don't want to lose my close friends! So please, give me advice, it hurts when my friends are trying their hardest to talk to me when I give no effort in return.
I can relate so hard right now it doesn’t even feel real. I struggle with maintaining my relationships and even my social life entirely. I have severe social anxiety, so I’m always kept on my toes about it. I have the same problem as you, I also don’t want to lose my friends and it’s heartbreaking to see them reach out with little to no res...... reply
I actually relate to this i do zero effort to make friends and then wonder why am I lonely. I don't have a special advice it is just comforting to find that others go through the struggles i am going through and you should keep in mind that trying to make friends for the purpose of having friends is not a good thing and friends won't last forever h...... 1 reply
Send them animal memes everyday so they don’t forget you exist, it’s minimal effort and and random and can be regarded as cute. Here’s some that I send people reply
I dunno how to answer that tbh it's hard to keep friendship especially when one is uninterested or that the two of you have nothing in common, that is probably why it feels empty when you talk to each other. But since your friends try their best to talk to you then maybe you should at least reply at best, asking about their day or telling yours. Si...... 1 reply
I can really relate, when i was in face to face school i had like two friends and one of them i had in all my classes and we always hung out but i was really akward and bad at making conversation, sometimes we just sat in akward silence because i really didnt feel like talking, it was exhausting trying to create a topic that'll interest both of us,...... 1 reply
tell them
'hey im sorry im not feeling good its hard for me to write sometimes'
or something like that... Umm yea it kinda hurts when the convo is dry ass hell my friend does the same thing... my only friend who im about to ghost for the hell of it.. the other person does the same so i stopped talking to her she 3 weeks and she hasnt said anythi...... 2 reply