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do you ever see yaoi fans that get weirded out by actual gay people?
I knew some girls that also liked bl and were weirded out by a lesbian and then were basically??? fetishising some bi guys we knew? needless to say I cut them off and was super disgusted by those girls. I dont know if thats a double standard or something needless to say people are weird. Have you guys seen anything like this before? I know its a thing that some "hyper masculine straight guys" like lesbians but get defensive around gay guys.
I don't know anyone that reads bl in real life so I haven't experienced it there. But on basically every site ever, yes. It makes me feel really gross to be honest. It can feel like I am an accomplice when it comes to their fetishizing gay men because I also read BL and love it. I have sometimes tried to correct people if they say something wrong, ...... 1 reply
