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How to move on
So , hear me out or um ... read me out My closest friend , well our friendship is one sided , its not even friendship i am just toxic and im obsessed with them , i knew that the time that they’d leave will come , but i didn’t think it’ll be soon , i have borderline, so i try my best not to get attached , i cant handle goodbyes , especially when its someone im attached to , i always tried to not get attached , but something about this person drove me in , and yesterday they left , its been a short while 6 months only , but i feel like im dying , i feel so alone , like something is on top of my chest , i keep panicking , i am so clingy i dont blame them , but when i met them it was my happiest year , now that they left i feel so depressed , my body isnt even functioning well , im having headaches and i keep throwing up , its so weird , never felt this way , it feels like i dont want to let anyone in anymore , they might be reading this actually , im only attached to my older brother and my friend , never been abandoned but this is my first time , im so scared ,
Well give yourself some time to calm down and think properly, you can start with taking walks, dazing out or daydreaming ( something that I would recommend to do at gloomy and alone moment which tends to help A LOT ), or/and just treat yourself with some foods - snacks - drinks - and others. But I would mostly recommend to listen to music of any ki...... reply
Go to therapy. The more you develop obsessions over people, the more you're going to drive them away and cause your mental health to go down. It's tiring for both parties, and you'll end up feeling extremely alone. No one should be dependent and have a need for someone else, that isn't good for anyone. Consider getting some help, and at the moment ...... reply
