if you want to be a gay man just to have gay sex then you are fetishizing it, probably. i was gonna explain this by a long paragraph but i'm too tired, so have a nice day. reply
Did we talk abt this in dms? Yes. Am i still going answer? Yes.
Seriously depends on the context imo. Sometimes it might be wanting to be trans and sometimes it’s abt the existing power balance between men and women. Most of the time i feel that it’s more complicated than ppl make it seem reply
I mean, yes? but i think it depends on whether you’re trying to just-ya know- get kinky in a man’s body bc you fetishized gay men or you actually wanting to be a man dating a man and having sex with that man reply
