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To yall kink shaming
I saw a lot of yall mfers on another question kink shaming people and while i get where yall are coming from, (its not easy to accept people's kinks smtimes), there could be a lot of shit behind someone's kink
A lot of people that have kinks are people that at some point in their lives have been raped or sexually assaulted. And as a result in order for them to cope with that reality they end up developing a kink (i an not saying that EVERY person with a kink is a rape/sexual assault survivor nor am i saying that every person that has been raped/sexually assaulted has developed a kink)
For an example i have a friend of mine that when she was a child she was raped by a person really close to her. As a result she developed a kink. That kink has helped her cope with that experience since she is the one in control of the play, she sets her boundaries and says what is acceptable/ isn't acceptable and she is the one letting the other person have that control over her body. In conclusion she is reclaiming in a way the consent that was once taken away from her
So to end this, every time you are kink shaming someone there is a high possibility that you are making fun of a victim of sexual assault, keep that in your mind
So yall try to be understanding humans are complicated af
wow, one actually smart human being with common sense. yall are hypocrites and will kink shame, but then go read something with the exact thing you're shaming others for. 2 reply
im sorry but i have seen so much disgusting sht in straight p0rn and i can not do this anymore, a kink which involves a woman dressing up or taking the role of a little girl and a man taking the role of dad and having sex like that is no just no ya'll are trying to normalize pedophilia and that is not going to work ever also i really hope ya'll kee...... reply
Yeah, i mean most kinks are weird to me, but as long as yall keep that shit to yourselves, and its two consenting ADULTS, it shouldnt be a problem.
Some people were saying that ddlg was creepy and pedophillic since one of them would dress as a kid, but the thing is its two consenting adults, and no child is getting their life ruined over some adult...... 2 reply
Kinks are all g unless you are sexualising gay people or minors or your "kink" is raping people. Then Fucking leave. That is not a kink : )
Those are real ass people
Also nobody wants people fucking right Infront of their face in public or masturbating in public
Not only is that gross thats also illegal so fuck off
(Sorry for the swearing i am Au...... reply
I don't think shitting and pissing yourself doesn't correlate to trauma most of the time.
Edit: Also if your kink is acting like your a 4-year-old and your "daddy" touches you please stay away from me. Not only does it seem like your normalizing pedophilia but your also infantilizing yourself. reply
Ok since some of yall wanna play stupid and wanna deflect from the topic that i am talking about.
1 NO i m not talking about people who are practicing their kinks in public because that almost never happens most people do their kinks in the privacy of their own homes, if you do see someone doing some weird shit in public then yeah yall can say tha...... 2 reply
I personally believe, as long as they don’t force their kinks onto others, it’s not a big deal. People get up to some wild shit, don’t get me wrong, but hey! If that’s what they wanna do, and legal consent is given, I don’t really care.
But! That doesn’t mean I’m 100% comfortable with hearing about other peoples... exploits..? Some ...... 1 reply
