no like why?

why do people (i was gonna use neurotypicals but i feel like people will come for me) act like "why" is like a forbidden word.

like i will literally ask why and i get yelled at. LMAO i never said that i wasn't going to do it I just wanted to know why I'm going to do it.

and i get 'i don't know' or 'just because' or sometimes just plain screaming. and it gets me frustrated because it's a simple ass question but now "im talking back".

and don't even get me started on the whole thing where I try and explain something and all of a sudden I'm making excuses.