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Finding your sexuality
Just curious, how did you guys find out what your sexuality was? I personally found that I was asexual since nothing ever had any kind of effect on me. (;・∀・)
The fact that for the longest time since my early teens I've found myself disgusted every time I imagined doing it. While I can be classified as horny f**k with what I read, I realised that I have 0 interest in sex irl. Same goes for romance. After my first boyfriend, I am almost sure that I'm ether aro ace or demi for both.
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I think because of how I was raised it came as a natural thing to me that different sexualities existed so never really wondered what i am. I always liked boy and one day I found this girl attractive, and realized that althought I preferd boys girls werent so bad either. I am mostly attracted to boys, and when looking for a partner always looked fo...... 1 reply
Where I'm from, sexuality isn't openly spoken about. It's a small community but no one really speaks with others about these kinds of things. And for a long time, I just went through life living it the way I wanted to. I realized in my last year of secondary education that I was missing out, apparently, on a lot of stuff. I just scoffed at my class...... reply
I liked boys, but I didn't realize I liked girls too until high school when a girl in my class joked around about kissing her. I was a bit surprised at first, but then I actually considered that and in my mind I was like ''yeah,I'd kiss you'', she was pretty hot too tbh, she still is, actually. After that moment I finally noticed that actually my f...... reply
When I was in elementary school I fell in love with a boy, and since I knew nothing about other sexualities, I just assumed everyone had the same.
As I grew older and got to know about homosexuality I thought, hey, being with a girl sounds nice, too. I was a little confused because I knew nuts about bisexuality at that time and didn't know if ther...... 1 reply
Funny story. I spent my teen years wondering how other girls so easily seemed to talk to guys and I thought I wanted that too, even though I never really wanted to date anyone. Then one day in college, my professor mentioned asexuality and something clicked in my head and I realized that was the missing puzzle piece. I was never "distressed" per se...... reply
I found out I wasn't straight when my friend and I googled if being gay is haram (we are muslims) as a joke and that's how we both kinda came out to each other. a couple of months later, my friend asked what kind of people I'm into and I said I like nice people and he told me that I'm pan. a year later, my parents beat up my sisters cuz they had bo...... 1 reply
I think I'm heterosexual. I'm only attracted to men. I read a lot of mangas (mostly yaoi, but I like shoujo, josei and I tried yuri too) and that made me think about my sexuality. I think romantically speaking girls are good too but sexually speaking I just need a dick ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ reply
To be honest, I'm not sure what my sexuality is. I've had what I call "infatuations", where I find someone cute and go through this phase where I'm completely attracted to them, but I always stop feeling that after less than a month, for both guys and the few girls I've been attracted to. My best friend suggested that I'm aroflux, but honestly, I d...... reply