that "biphobic" question

so, im the one who asked the apparently "biphobic" question y'all call. first off, yall are quick to call this "biphobic" when the question is meant to ask the BISEXUALS themselves on how they feel about their own sexuality and if you're not, then dont answer and dont feel "offended" for us. if you are sure of your sexuality and you dont feel the same insecurity, then dont answer. i experience this constant doubt about my sexuality because you cant just magically confirm your sexuality, especially when people even in your own community are trying to erase your sexual identity!! telling you you're either straight or gay and you cant be "both". people can answer the questions about their insecurities if they want to!! and dont throw the word "biphobic" around because its downplaying the actual biphobia we are experiencing. if this question offends you when you're not even bi, meaning you dont share the same lived experiences, then you need to read the actual definition of "biphobia" again. if i was as offended as y'all, i could even call y'all the one who's BIPHOBIC because yall are invalidating a question from a bisexual person. i didnt have to put my sexuality on the question, cause i thought it was obvious enough that the question was for bisexual people who might feel the same insecurity as i do which is totally valid. yall are hella quick to insult people just because you dont know them in real life