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I was parenting my nephew and Im scared
I was curios about child development and I googled it, but I think I need more opinions.
The situation: My mother sometimes wants me to look out for my nephew (he is 9 months old) because she is cleaning his clothes. My nephew and I are alone in the room and I was reading some BL which may include smut sometimes. Its just a bother that he was also looking in the laptop and I dont know if he can know comprehend what I was reading, but Im sure that he has faster development copared to other kids because he can now perceive or see us and remember the face of each of my family member. I need some advice, when will a baby can remember the things he see? Should I stop reading bl when he is with me?
Im just scared because I also clearly remember the reason why I had become gay, it was when I was 6 years old and I see some movies about a man being tied up and stripped off or he was been naked. I dont like him to become gay because he see me watching BL stuff, my reason is not because being gay is disgusting (Im not trying to offend the LGBT community), but rather because I dont want him to suffere the same humiliation I get from the society. Thank you so much if you have time to give me some advice in regards to parenting or caring my nephew.
Rant, read this OP: First of all, just don't read smut near children or in public. General social rule.
Now, I'm aware that you didn't want to offend LGBT, but I'm gonna have to tell you this. It's impossible to "become gay".
We're all born as we are, whether we're straight or not. Being straight shouldn't even be seen as default, but that's on...... 1 reply
You definitely should stop reading BL around him since he is a child but that doesn’t mean you can’t show him anything without lgbt representation. It’s honestly better if you normalize it for him. If you don’t want him to suffer the same way you did then you can be the one to support him so he doesn’t have to go through that. This genera...... 1 reply
1. No, the age from which a first memory can be retrieved (when they can start having lasting memories) is usually at the age of three or four, but it can range from two to eight years, in my case i had vague memories when i was maybe 1-2 years old cos it had a huge impact on me. When kids turn 1 they start understanding more but if they're only se...... 1 reply
um just stop reading shit like that in front the baby or any children. i mean...that has nsfw contents so obviously that’s not alright. and why would u think that someone can become gay just from that? uh u don’t become gay, its either you’re born gay or the other way around and in some cases, it just takes some time for people to realize th...... 3 reply
actually, I'm more concerned with how you take care of the baby... please give your undivided attention to your nephew when you're entrusted to keep an eye on him. anything could happen coz they constantly move around. better take precautions, yeah? 1 reply
