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bro i feel bad but idk
hi, everyone. this is long but pls bear with me thankyouu. so i have two close friends, boy and girl. ofc im closer with my girl friend. the three of us have been friends for 3yrs and we got closer this pandemic. we hangout alot but lately our guy friend is acting weird with my girl friend. to the point she's not comfortable anymore. he's going to her house without informing her first and barging in her room without knocking (he would hide his presence and just stare at her from the door) like trying to catch her doing something idk. he would also tell us that he's 'hard as a rock' (do your guy friends tell you that his hard or are we just being sensitive??) and she just recently told me that he would put his foot in front of her private part and he was being extra touchy (like he would rub his legs in hers) she didn't want to tell me because she thought she was just being sensitive but it just felt so wrong. i tried talking to him abt it but he just brushed it off and we decided to cut him off. he's still messaging us telling us to hangout and my girl friend is feeling guilty for not telling him that we don't want to anymore but i tried talking to him abt it and he just brushed me off. idk what should i do since it's a 3yrs friendship but he have so many red flags
I don't actually have friends BUT I can tell that what he did was wrong.
If he just wanted to " hangout as friends " than he shouldn't have done this, it would be a different story if they were dating ( but I don't really think you should be doing something like this to your girlfriend ).
But to me he just looks like a creep 1 reply
NUH UH GIRL dont even THINK about going back to that prick absolutely not. There is no excuses for his dumbassery he sounds like the type to play the victim in this situation too yuck yuck yuck reply
none of you guys are being sensitive. he's a predator and is not hiding that fact at all. both of yall please be safe.
she feels uncomfortable with / fears his presence, it'd be best if you completely cut him off. (consider blocking him on all social media, etc.)
if any of you decide to go back to being friends/being close with him, it's a possi...... reply
SHAWTY
CUT TIES RN AND GIVE HIM A NICE SLAP TOO
I DUN CARE IF ITS UR COUSIN OR UR BESTFRIEND FOR 10 YEARS, IF SOMEONE’S A PERVERT, THEY ARE PERVERT AND THAT’S ON P E R I O D T reply
Drop. that. guy. friendIf your girlfriend is feeling uncomfortable around your guy friend, just know that something's wrong and stop being like that. she may not tell you but action tell more than words.
Even if your friends with him for 3yrs, still. drop. him. 1 reply
hes being predatory and cutting him off was a good decision so please don't feel guilty or be hard on yourselves! make sure you blocked all of his social media accounts and stay far away from him. reassure your friend that she doesnt need to feel guilty because what she did was the right decision. reply
