Gotta add context since I’m honestly convinced this isn’t a crush She acts like this with all of her other friends , girl or guy it doesn’t matter She’s told everyone she’s straight , she’s never shown interest in any gender but she says she’s straight so I’m going it with All of her friends are hardcore introverts , She doesn’t get much attention from them either
We talked for about an hour , one of those life deep ones , she opened up to how her parents didn’t give her much attention as a child and she doesn’t really have an extended family and the extended family she does have she’s never met Me on the other hand I was smutherred by my whole family , including extended family I have a huge family and I was extremely spoiled by them Ig that’s how we both came to the conclusion on how she loves attention and I hate it
I gave her more boundaries and she respects all the boundaries already which I do appreciate a lot She just said ‘ if that’s what makes you happy and comfortable I’ll respect them ‘
I get mixed signals with this girl but this was over text and she acts differently on text then irl but that’s almost anyone in some extent
Well, everyone is different, and it might just be her way of getting along with people. Tho it does sound like she is yearning for affection and close friendships to prove her worth/existence. I'm quite sad that she seems like a lonely person who treads on eggshells even around her friends... reply
