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What was your experience when you first came out to your family or friends?
Hello, I'm bisexual and I haven't come out to my family but I think my brothers are getting suspicious of me but the thing is that my older brother is homophobic so that's a problem of mine.. I'm scared to come out. But I wanted to ask.. What were your experiences when you first came out?
i came out to my friends and my step cousins and theyre supportive. i will NEVER do it with my parents tho they did allow me to buy a pride flag (they prob didnt know what it meant and just thought it was a rainbow flag.) reply
I didn’t get to come out.
I was forced out by my mom after she found my journal.
She slapped me.
She apologized later, but it was hard to forgive her.
I tried coming out as trans to her, but she laughed at me and said being nonbinary/gender fluid is a fake thing that people make up for attention. (she still misgenders me and crap too)
I’m out...... reply
When I came out to my mom she was happy that there won‘t be any unwanted pregnancys and that my sister and I won’t ever fight over the same boy. My sister didn’t care at all. I still have to come out to the rest of my familie, but I’m scared. I‘ll probably tell them in a few years or when I‘m thirty lol. Most of my friends are not strai...... reply
When I came out as bisexual my mom was like "hey me too".
I'm lucky 'cus my mom always told me it's okay to be what I am and "don't get hurt and hurt others..too much".
Also my grandma asked me like couple years ago "do you have boyfriend? No? Oh how about girlfriend? Oh also no..Well do you have friends?" that was super pure. reply
Maybe this wont help you at all... but when I came out as bi to my mom, I did it completely randomly in a conversation we had about life in general. I was a grownup, but since I hadn't ever dated a woman (I'm a cis woman myself) I hadn't felt the need to say it.
I knew she wouldn't mind since, I grew up surrounded by gay family friends, and she di...... reply
i(female) actually came out accidently bcoz i had broken up with my girlfriend and was pretty sad so when my mum asked me what happened i just accidentally told her that i broke up with my girlfriend and she was like "you're lesbian?" and i was like "shit" and told her that i was bisexual and she was like "oh okay so? do you want some chocolate or ...... reply
