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sexuality confused help!
like am i asexual? pansexual? bisexual? transgender? help! like i have sexual desires but i dont wanna do it with anyone or if i liked someone i will just never confess to them. i also wanna be a boy im pretty sure. thenn sometimes there are times where i am attracted to mostly girls but then there are times where i am mostly attracted to guys if that makes sense help i am super confused and scared to talk to anyone about it.
https://quizlagoon.com/quiz/sexuality-quiz/ Maybe this test can help. But honestly, it's only important how you feel, not important how you label it. 1 reply
you don’t have to label yourself. labels are confusing sometimes and causes anxiety so
also when it comes to the topic of being trans that’s something that you have to discover overtime. if you wanna learn more abt it try getting in contact with an actual trans person so you won’t stressed. im sure they don’t mind answering any questions reply
Well no one can really tell you what you are... at this point I've become so frustrated with what I am, I literally just say "I hate humans" as a way to say I'm ace? And aro? But at the same time something else? lables are just labels though, there really isn't an extreme need to have that label, at the end of the day, it's whatever you feel comfor...... reply
you don't have to rush and label yourself, explore/educate to discover what you truly feel. Don't count on people to define it for you or determine from a simple link or test.
Resource:
https://pflag.org/sites/default/files/BeYourself_2019_FINAL.pdf
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sexual-orientation/sexual-orientation
like i said educate...... reply
hi!! seems like youre at a point in your life where youre v much confused with your self-identity and sexuality, and it's okay not to immediately not understand/know what you're feeling! just give yourself the ability to accept yourself for however you wanna identify yourself :) and for the whole "attracted to mostly girls and guys," that's mostly ...... reply
no one can tell u who u are
also theres no need for lables, just be u, if you feel like you are intrested in boys cool and if the next day you feel attracted to girls and not boys at all thats also fine, if you like all genders that fine, there really isnt a need for a lable reply