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Have you ever gave up on explaining something?
Is it just me? I mean sometimes i blame myself for being like that. Cuz other people always blame me and telling me stuffs like why are you always like that? Can you just do this properly? Like i know this is deep shit but honestly i wanna know if people feel the same like when they blame something on you but you wanna explain everything and the realizing that they won't even try listening so you just stop explaining shits until you finally gave up explaining shits
You know, it's really problematic and a shitty thing. I wouldn't give a damn to others, but it's my family that makes me feel guilty over no reason. Like, they ask me to explain sth, i truthfully explain it, but they don't give a shit. If you didn't care about the reason from the start, why ask me? If you don't believe that what i tell is the truth...... 2 reply
I swear,i gave up on explaining when they wanted a satisfactionary answer,and that picture is the thing what i rlly wanna do to the people i gave up explaining the truth to 3 reply
Yeah, been there. After a while I finally just said fuck it. If they don't want to listen it's for a reason, they're happy with their own narrative and I don't owe them shit. Let them sit their in there own stupidity until they figure it out on their own. reply
I've had that problem but from the other side. I have auditory perception disorder. This means that while my actual hearing is excellent I have trouble understanding what is said especially if there is background noise. I have long lost any shame or embarrassment about asking people to repeat things multiple times or sometimes I just pretend I u...... reply
Everytime I try to explain myself to my mom, I would be trying my best to explain my feelings and things to her but then she starts getting mad at me yelling and then will go and ask “why do you look so defeated” like bruh what do you think? reply
Experienced this many times with my family, especially when it concerned things pertaining about my personality and my actions. Honestly, I've always responded with blindly trying to explain but nowadays I just apologize and let it be.
It's not the best, but I found that every time I tried to fight back, I'd cry in the end and would need to refle...... 1 reply
Yes hahaha
I would tell someone something and I can sense that they dont really care about what im saying so i just stop midway and they wouldnt notice or even ask why i stopped midway.
Example would be my bro, i would talk to him and he would reply to me with an obvious uninterested 'uh huh' 'hmm' 'and?'
And thats one of the reasons why i give...... 2 reply
that's how i response in uncomfortable situations. sometimes i regretted being like this, but i don't want to waste energy explaining knowing they don't give a fuck. reply
