How you hate

I said this before, but I dislike using the word hate / hatred when talking about somebody, I just think its too heavy of a word towards a person? When I was younger my teacher always told me that people underestimate how painful it is to be hated, and overestimate how good it feels to be loved, I think I carried this odd ideology for so long that ......   1 reply

I ignore them like they’re dead. Except for one person, although we no longer talk. I kept him on my social media. I ought to know if they died so I can forgive myself from the pain and suffering he caused. I won’t go in details. Sometimes I go visit his profile hoping there’ll be an announcement of his passing. He is still alive. I hope he......   reply

i think of them as dead in my mind or wish them death (mentally, no irl plotting) asap... but tbf i rarely hate someone, they'd have to be a pedophile or a rapist for me to hate them   reply

I dont know actually. Every person ive hated was abusive to me, and even when I no longer had to see them, the thought of them would just feel agonizing. But if you asked me how I felt towards those people I would call it hatred I guess when their mere presence makes me feel like I need to "fix" myself to not set a certain reaction from them, that......   reply