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It’s almost midnight and i am tired as hell but there is a spider going around the house.. wished i had sum partner in crime who would kill it for me   1 reply
14 09,2026
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What the fuck is happening with my questions i want to edit and the only thing i can do is delete and when i want to post again nothing of my text is in there   7 reply
14 08,2026
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Dear MangaGo, I appreciate how you have always been by my side when I needed you the most. From my dark days, when I was depressed and had lost the meaning of life, to my happy and peaceful days where I just like to be by myself and read. How many times have I used you as an excuse with my parents by telling them I’m sitting and studying when I......   5 reply
07 08,2026
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Dumpling14 03 08,2026
Why does it feel like everyone talks so formally and academically here? Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean this in a bad or hateful way. I actually enjoy reading your comments and seeing your reasoning and thoughts. But as someone who doesn’t have English as their first language and who is also diagnosed with DLD, I sometimes find it difficul......   7 reply
03 08,2026
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It’s honestly scary how many of you are struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts. I know people need a place to vent, and that’s completely okay, letting your feelings out can be healthy and healing. But I’ve noticed more and more of these posts over the past few days, and even throughout the past week. Please take care of yourselve......   3 reply
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If y’all are wondering why they couldn’t just adopt, it’s because the woman wanted a child who was biologically related to her husband a child of his own blood and give them something that connected them biologically, even if the child had to be from another woman. Her husband thought the whole idea was wrong, which was why he kept insistin......   1 reply
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What do you feel about seeing two girls kissing then?   2 reply
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Dumpling14 8 days
I usually hate pick up lines cause it’s cringe, but somehow this always make me smile “Your hand looks lonely. Can I hold it?”   reply
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Happy Easter to you too bro.   reply
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I only like Disney to be honest i don’t watch “normal” movies. But for disney i like: Beauty and the beast Cinderella And ariel And i still don’t get the hate about prince adam and prince charming prefences i guess ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭   reply
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Okay, so I don’t really know how to feel about this story. I can’t decide whether it’s actually sweet or not, but I want to hear your opinions about it.

My mom once had a friend (I don’t know if they’re still friends or not, but this happened years ago). Her friend was happily married, but she and her husband couldn’t have children, even though they tried various things. Nothing seemed to work, and the doctors didn’t know why. Maybe it was something biological on her end.

Of course, she was sad about it. She also thought a lot about her husband because she knew how badly he wanted children, too. However, he was incredibly kind to her. He never pressured her, complained about it, or made her feel guilty. Neither did his family. He basically told her, “As long as you’re happy and we’re together, that’s all that matters to me.”

She knew he meant it, but she still couldn’t help feeling guilty because she knew how much he would love to have children of his own.

Now, here’s what actually happened.

One day, the woman told her husband that he could marry another woman and have children with her since she couldn’t give him any. She felt that she was preventing him from experiencing something he wanted so badly.

Naturally, her husband refused at first. He told her, “Why would I do that? I love you, and I’ve already told you that I don’t care about having children anymore. You’re more important to me.”

But she kept insisting. Eventually, she even suggested that he could simply sleep with another woman to make a child and then return to her, so that he could have a biological child of his own without having to leave their marriage.

She continued insisting until he eventually agreed. He slept with another woman, but there were no romantic feelings involved. The intention was simply to make a child.

Afterward, the married couple also helped take care of the other woman by paying her hospital bills, providing food, and helping with other expenses.

Eventually, they had a child who was biologically the husband’s, although the wife wasn’t the child’s biological mother.

So, what do you think about this situation?

Was the woman right to do this? Would you consider what happened to be cheating, or would you see it as something else entirely?

Her reasoning was that she loved her husband so much that she could almost feel how deeply he longed to have children, even though he rarely expressed it directly. She knew he wasn’t pressuring her and that he genuinely loved her regardless, but she still wanted to do something to make him happy.
But also to see his child even though it was not her own. Now the child, (who is a son i think) is living with the couple and takes care of him.
7 days
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What are some theories or controversies you’ve heard about cartoons, channels, or TV shows that you actually believe in or completely disagree with?


It’s also okay to share one from your own country!
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Do you prefer your stories to be long, like a full series/over 2 seasons or you prefer them short like a one shot/ 30 chapters max ?

And why?

For those of you who picked first answer:
Do you think dragging a story for too long can become boring at the end?

And for those of you who picked second answer:
Do you think one shot/some chapters is enough to understand the story and the characters or is it always that it may “lacking in depth”?
14 days
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How do you all pick who you want to follow in this site? Like is it when reading their bio? How they talk and interact with others? Mutual friends or anything else?

And those of you who don’t have one yet, what is the reason?

I like hearing from both sides
20 days
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Do you all believe in karma? Whether for religious reasons or because you’re spiritual

And if you don’t believe in karma, has anything ever happened to you—or to someone you know that made you rethink your perspective on it?

If you believe in other spiritual things, drop them and let me think if you think of them as a sign too!

Spirituality has always caught my interest so i am curious to hear your thoughts too
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