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I want to be better so people will like me
Hey guys! Do you have any tips on how to improve my personality so that people will want to be friends with me? I'm kind of bland and have trouble with entertaining people that I'm talking with, but I really want to make friends and have fun with them. Any ideas? PS. Please don't write something like "act crazy so they won't notice that you're boring"
I have no social life so I really don't know what to tell you. You don't have to change for people to entertain them, you're not a clown, just be yourself.
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You don’t have to change your personality for people to like you and you should find someone who will like you for who you are but if it helps then trying new things always makes it easier for people to relate to you. It could literally be anything like trying out different hobbies or watching tv shows and movies that are out of your comfort zone...... reply
all of these answers are saying "be yourself" but they're not really answering it so here you go :]
I think you should try to be more open with your interests (basic ones, not interests that could backfire) so if someone likes the same thing it's easier to connect, etc, pins, maybe little keychain things, shirts, or just talking openly about it
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Hi !
Just be at peace with yourself and be yourself. It's ok to be bland.
You can try to take the lead in some situation, but really just be yourself. I you're confident, you'll shine bright and attract the friends you are waiting for. reply
Honestly, don't try to change yourself to make friends, because then not only will you not really have much in common with them you'll also be exhausted from always trying to be more energetic than you really are.
Just try to find people with the same interests and hobbies as you, then you'll see that talking about it will be really easy 1 reply
Wow guys, thanks so much for all the advise! It was really helpful. Man, ppl from this site really are different, so sweet and kind ️
PS. Sorry for not replying under every answer, it seemed counterproductive bcause I would just write the same thing over and over again. Just know that I really appreciate the time you put into writing this 2 reply
I dont think you should change your whole personality for that. But expressing your hobbies and stuff you like e.i videogames, movies and series can realy help. Idk what are your hobbies and stuff u like? Surely you have something. And you can use those as a conversation starter for a long run reply
be yourself. ppl will stay around if they really liked you in the first place. find people of similar interests and mindsets and you'll be set. also, have more confidence in yourself. more often than not, your perception of yourself will rub off on others. for example, i can see myself getting along someone confident in their stupidity rather than ...... reply
