Am I the only one?

Am I the only one who feels iffy about the isekai/reincarnation/rebirth stories where the main setting is in past/ancient times? I kind of feel I've seen SO MANY mangas where the FL ALWAYS relies on the Ml in some way because he is of a higher status/reputation/skills/et. Even if that help is in small doses, I can't help but feel irritated. I guess I'm a sadistic son of a bish who wants the Fl to suffer and help herself when no one else will. Ugh, if there are any manga where the ML is nearly non-existent or AT LEAST the lesser one(in terms of status/power/etc) in the relationship pls recommend.

I just wanna see a strong af FL with a weak ML that gets pampered/protected by the FL. ( T﹏T )