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Is this technically trauma??
I'm scared of people screaming at me cause my mom does that I've also learned how to not cry and just tolerate the pain when i'm being hit by the back scratcher or the belt because she'd get mad at me even more if i cried so now to not cry i just pinch myself really hard or bite myself really hard, of course i'm making sure i don't bleed But its strong enough to leave a mark My parents don't pay attention tho
Sorry to break it to you, but yes... You are getting triggered by the happenings of the past and that, happening in the present or future scares you. It's sad to say that, I can't actually do something about it but I hope you are doing fine, and feel no more pain when the time comes. Fighting!! reply
From my experience, yes that qualifies as trauma. Domestic abuse is no joke... I can also relate to not allowing myself to cry, and biting myself, although mine is slightly different. I didn't want them to lord it over me that I cried, and I did it for so long that now I can barely cry at all... Even when I want to release all the stress and emotio...... reply
Trauma is trauma. You don’t have to have the worst happen for it to be traumatizing. I’m sorry this happens to you. Parents shouldn’t hit or yell at kids. I try to never yell at mine. I’ll admit I have on occasion flipped out and yelled but I always calm myself down and apologize. No one is perfect and that’s what I tell my kid. That it�...... reply
I can totally relate to not cry and tolerate the pain when i'm getting hit. At one point, i even said what they're doing is abusive and they said it's not but suprisingly they stopped and i didn't get in trouble for that. We rarely got hit by something tbh, it's probably a good thing. 1 reply
