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Girls reading/watching bl (more like rant against men)
I haven't really thought much about this drama until like this one 'gay dude' said that reading bl or 'fetishizing gay men' is disgusting. Like to any gay dudes or just any guy in this site, do you actually feel uncomfortable or grossed out knowing how women like bl? If you do, I am actually very sorry, but like-- I just don't understand why women are being so damn hated for it, just take the virgin *ssholes in the anime community for example. Guy are not bashed by women if they enjoy yuri or sometimes straight out jerk off to lesbian porn, but why are we being hated by them? How are we ruining the anime with non-cannonical ships and dj that are exactly like ur hent@i? It's not like all of us only read bl, ya know? Most of us read straight and gl too, and to top all that I'M A BI. I'm basically up for any gender as long as it's love.
...SO HOW CUM, GIRLS WHO READ BL or FUJOSHIS ARE DISGUSTING WHEN WE'RE ALL DAMN PERVERTS IN THE FIRST PLACE?? HUUUH??? SHOULDN'T YOU BE CALLING OUT DAMN SHOTA/LOLICONS FIRST BEFORE US??
LIKE BISH THE ONLY ONE THING DISGUSTING RIGHT HERE IS YO MOM'S PUSSY TO EVER GIVE BIRTH TO A TRASH LIKE YOU-- jk te-hee~ (❀╹◡╹)凸
just because I read bl i don't want to be referred to as a fujoshi cause it feels more like an insult because of the shit they do, I know how to respect people anyone can read anything they want until they respect it but straight men watching lesbian p0rn and women watching gay p0rn doesn't sit right with me 1 reply
That was not the original criticism being made. This is what the conversation has evolved to, not what has been originally stated. The *original* criticism was not of girls reading BL, it was that of the morality and plethora of fetishization of the media by the readers from the authors. No one cares if you also read every genre on the planet, peop...... 2 reply
i understand that some gay guy prolly hates fujo/danshi or whoever reads bl n then "fetishize* it but hating ALL fujoshi bc of that its completely doesnt sit right w me? bruh, even tell the girls to stop reading it??? "it made for gays, ur straight dont read bl" thats some weird gatekeeping right there n well... jokes on u im a non-binary n a bisex...... reply
To clear a few things,
• Reading BL ≠ fetishising mlm
• It just so happens that a large number of non mlm BL readers fetishise MLM on public platforms. And that number is large enough for gay men to be uncomfortable.
• WLW fetishisation is just as big of a problem. Don't use it to justify anything. In fact men are called out for it way ...... reply
i- well, about how men who fetishizing wlw and not getting backlash, you can't use that to justify women fetishizing mlm, yk.. neither should be justified, at all. just because you're a perv, doesn't justify fetishizing a sexuality. why are you blaming them (gay men) for not speaking about men who fetishize wlw, when it's a different matter??
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why are people still talking about this lmaoo (just saw it's from a month ago. hm. still gonna respond i wrote this all out lol)
here's my scoop as a gay dude
would watching a movie or reading a book about gay men/boys in a relationship be fetishizing them? nah. nah fam.
well, depends, actually (mostly on what the message of said media is and how t...... reply
anyone who’s non mlm/nlm shouldnt be primarily reading/watching bl/yaoi’s same way someone who isnt wlw/nlw shouldnt be primarily watching/reading yuris/lesbian porn.
the majority of the bl fanbase are fujos who fetishise us mlm and thats wrong. don’t use men watching lesbian porn etc to justify this because both are equally wrong. that bein...... reply