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I am confused
So umーbefore I start I'll just point out that I am a female.
I think I'm in the middle of a sexual crisis right now.
Since little I always had the thought of wanting to be a boy on the back of my head. And these days that thought has been on my mind constantly.
The thought of having s*x actually scares me. And I honestly don't wanna gave birth. But both of that thought was only because I heard they're both painful (well they said s*x is only painful for the first time). I honestly wanted to have a pe**s and I'm quite envious of the people who had one ( ._.)
I'm straight. Which means I'm attracted to male. That means I wanted to be held. But I mean 'back there'.
I said I wanna be a male but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to female though. I dunno, seeing a female's naked body actually grossed me out even though I literally had the same thing on my own body.
Sorry if this is a mess. Because the inside of my head itself is already a mess.
Is there anyone who is having the same problem as me? Does this mean I'm gay? Agghhh please help meeeee (;´Д`)
you are obviously not attracted to women, you contradict yourself a lot of times here - "the thought of having sex scares me" and "I want to be held" which have totally opposite meanings since you could be asexual who is straight and is romantically attracted to men, you may be trans or genderfluid (if the thought of still identifying as a female s...... reply
Heya. For some context, I'm a female, 29 years old.
First of all, sex is never supposed to be painful (except when it's deliberate and consensual on all parts, like in a play). Vaginal sex is not supposed to hurt the first time either, but it's something that happens frequently because both parties are usually beginners, and don't have experience ...... reply
hi before i'd like to comment. I adviced for you to get Professional help for this to help you understand what you're going through.
Any how from my understanding I had the same feeling but different reasons in my life which with the help of professionals helped me understand I was genderfluid but I was still attracted to Male.
I think you might ...... 1 reply
You may be gay and a trans man??
Not sure, honestly do some research, ive heard some trans people didnt have body dysphoria so its kinda hard to tell if you are or arent just from this. reply
